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Is it weird
fdnybride163
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 04:22 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 04:22 PM
Is it weird
That its a week before my shower and almost nothing has been bought off my registry?!I know people procrastinate but almost 50 ladies are invited and only about 10 gifts have been bought.
Whatever I just want mimosas
2013Bride
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 04:27 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 04:27 PM
Re: Is it weird
Posted by fdnybride163
That its a week before my shower and almost nothing has been bought off my registry?!
I know people procrastinate but almost 50 ladies are invited and only about 10 gifts have been bought.![]()
Whatever I just want mimosas![]()
I mean, that is a little odd... but maybe they didn't buy the items directly through your registry? (which kinda takes away the point of the registry so that you don't get doubles of things.)
And like you said, people procrastinate. I'm not gonna lie, I've definitely bought shower gifts the day/night before haha
katielynn
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 05:06 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 05:06 PM
Is it weird
2014 crasher... They might not have bought it off your registry... or they may be doing a gift card.I typically wait until the last moment possible to go because I try to really listen to what the bride is saying she REALLY wants off the registry that hasn't been bought yet... or I'll flat out ask her 'Give me 3-5 things off your registry that hasn't been bought yet that you want' (that IF she knows about the shower and if she's snooping on her registry!)
Sugaplum111905
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 05:57 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 05:57 PM
Is it weird
I'm sure people didn't have your registry scanned. I know a lot of older people don't know they need to do that.
canoli
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 06:56 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 06:56 PM
Is it weird
This weekend will be a huge weekend to stalk the registry.Don't worry, people will buy.
KK19
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 08:03 PM+
Is it weird
I've noticed this a lot when I go to people's showers - total last minute shopping, especially when your people are local and aren't ordering online. If they don't have to ship it to your house (ie, wedding gift) then they go last minute. Don't sweat it yet!Edited to add that i freaking love mimosas.
JojoBride
Posted: Mar 01, 2013 08:46 PM+

Posted: Mar 01, 2013 08:46 PM
Re: Is it weird
Posted by KK19
I've noticed this a lot when I go to people's showers - total last minute shopping, especially when your people are local and aren't ordering online. If they don't have to ship it to your house (ie, wedding gift) then they go last minute. Don't sweat it yet!
Edited to add that i freaking love mimosas.![]()
Agreed...people wait until for the very last second...dont worry!
fdnybride163
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 01:48 AM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 01:48 AM
Re: Is it weird
Posted by canoli
This weekend will be a huge weekend to stalk the registry.
Don't worry, people will buy.
I've been stalking my reg since the moment I created it. Even before I told people about it I was looking every day!
I'm such creep
Shanti12
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 10:55 AM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 10:55 AM
Re: Is it weird
I'm not even going to LOOK at mine because I'm nervous hahah.People definitely procrastinate too which is not good because I find that lately everything I look for even at BB&B is not available in the store!
PS I'm glad you know when your shower is too, people treat me weird because it's not a surprise for me haha! Hey I bought a dress I want to make sure I'm wearing it!
Also, I just want mimosas too
Kris10nGerard
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 11:26 AM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 11:26 AM
Is it weird
Dont stress I added something the Friday before my shower and got it at my shower. I think probably half the people at my shower went the Saturday before.
MsErikaLynn
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 01:47 PM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 01:47 PM
Is it weird
sometimes the store messes up and forgets to scan your registry list. which means doubles :(
Kristin31613
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 02:13 PM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 02:13 PM
Is it weird
Are you sure the invites went out?
fdnybride163
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 05:35 PM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 05:35 PM
Re: Is it weird
Posted by Kristin31613
Are you sure the invites went out?
So funny you say that bc three people didn't get invites!
Oh whatever I would rather have gift cards anyway, less to pack in the car!!
melnmatt2013
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 05:40 PM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 05:40 PM
Re: Is it weird
Posted by fdnybride163
Posted by Kristin31613
Are you sure the invites went out?
So funny you say that bc three people didn't get invites!
Oh whatever I would rather have gift cards anyway, less to pack in the car!!
I got almost all gift cards and it was the best!! Picked out the stuff I really wanted and didn't have to schlep the presents back home in the car. Mind you my mom did add 'gift cards welcome' on the registry info since I was traveling up from VA for the shower but I'm sure even without that some last minute people will do gift cards for sure.
sgf2
Posted: Mar 02, 2013 06:02 PM+

Posted: Mar 02, 2013 06:02 PM
Is it weird
I wouldn't be too worried. One of my friends got married this past summer, and most of our friends got her shower gifts literally on the way to the shower.Hope you have a great time!! And lots of mimosas!!
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