Post New Topic

Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

kama Posted:

Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

I have been told that it is recommended to give your Maitre ‘D tip about $2,000 -$3,000. Is it true???????
This amount was not in my budget .
rocky23 Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

we gave him $500 I never hard of that much?

Summer05 Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

We were told 2-4 dollars per person.

BriBri529 Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

No- 2-4 dollars per guest

kama Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

Thank you! You made my day!

Danielle2207 Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

We were told $3-4 dollars pp.

LuvMyMichael Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

ours is $450 says it in our contract.


$2000 that is high!!!!
randella Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

we were told $4 to $7 a head-- I think we gave $6.. for a lot of people.. the tip is not just for him-- but for the captains and the waiters, etc.

Mrs. dleeny Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????


Posted by kama

I have been told that it is recommended to give your Maitre ‘D tip about $2,000 -$3,000. Is it true???????
This amount was not in my budget .

OMG!! that's a fortune!!!!! I would say not unless you're having a thousand people at your wedding!

I heard that you're supposed to tip $2-$3pp
kama Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

I just have 150 people. I have asked my FH where he got those high recommendation price for Maitre ‘D.
He said he saw it on the estimated bill from Jericho Terrace.
I just looked it up and of course he got it all wrong!!!!
It says there $1000-$1200 not $2000.
It is still high comes to $8 per person.
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????


Posted by kama

I just have 150 people. I have asked my FH where he got those high recommendation price for Maitre ‘D.
He said he saw it on the estimated bill from Jericho Terrace.
I just looked it up and of course he got it all wrong!!!!
It says there $1000-$1200 not $2000.
It is still high comes to $8 per person.

$8 pp??!! give me a break! of course THEY are going to recommend that.

When FH and I went looking at venues for the wedding, one of the places we looked at was the Roslyn Clairmont Hotel. we told the BM up front that we're having around 50-60 ppl and he said later on that he usually gets tipped $500. that would have been $10 pp for us. I don't think so!

I think if you tip $2-$4 pp that is fine! $4x 150 = $600 and that is generous, IMO. don't forget that you're also paying 18% gratuity as part of your hall fee.
glinda_goodwitch Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

When I went to sign my contract, my banquet manager said that $500 is customary.

ChrissynRicky Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

Our BM said somewhere from $2-3 per guest...2K is excessive! REALLY NOW!

LilyOfValley Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

Our BM said $1 per guest!

ETA : and it says so in our contract.
AJsMommy122 Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

Yeah I agree with the other girls thats way too much!!

We tipped $3 per person.
SomethingBlu Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

Yeah, our place (the same as yours) recommended about $5-6 per person. We gave him $400 which was a little more than $4pp.

They do a great job, I promise, but tipping that much is nuts!

Butterflybride Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

I've heard that $1-5 per guest is appropriate. I ended up tipping $3 per guest.

wood2be Posted:

Re: Is the tip for Maitre ‘D so high????

We gave ours absolutely nothing. He didn't do a thing all night. My DJ and Photographer did everything for us.

In answer to your question, IMO that is too much. I would have given $2-$4 per person.

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.