Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)
okay, let me preface by saying i'm NOT a jealous person at all. i usually find it a wasted emotion. but no one is perfect, and sometimes it can creep up once in a blue moon. but 99.9% of the time, i KNOW that DH is not going anywhere, cause well i'm pretty awesome. ![]()
i think this issue i'm having is more about respect than anything, and that's why it made me so mad.
soooo...there is this one girl in our friends circle that i don't like and i'm always suspect about. let me give you a quick backstory.....first if you looked up the word 'slutbag' in the dictionary, this girl's face would be there. she's the town bike, everyone's had a ride. she knows no boundaries...men...women....small woodland creatures (okay maybe that last one is a stretch, but i see the way she eyes a raccoon)...but i digress. she was a friend of a fellow classmate of DH's when he went back to school a few years ago. she tagged along with them one nite and after lots of drinking, she basically let my DH (just my BF at the time) and his friend know, that if they wanted to, they should feel free to run a train on her...and they can both have ride. ::excuse me while i vomit:: well DH's friend took her up on that offer, and shacked up with her that nite. 3 wks later she comes back to her one nite stand and says she's preggo. he's a good man, and rather than say 'i know you have been riden more than the ferris wheel, i'm gonna stand by your side thru this pregnancy'
they've been together ever since, (going on about 3 yrs now), but it's quite evident that they do NOT love each other. never have...never will. they fight constantly and he admits that he just doesn't feel that way and stays for the child. so they are quite sad as a couple, and i know that she's jealous of what DH and i have.
fast fwd to now. since i know she tried to get a tag team going with my DH years ago, i'm always gonna be suspect of this biitch. so DH tells me that she emailed him yesterday, and invited him to her myspace page. (DH went by there on sunday to give his friend some info on job related stuff and his email addy was there) this is the kicker....she had one up and her BF made her take it down, cause she was getting rather friendly on there and i think she was trying to set up dates with girls AND guys. (plus she had sexy pics up) so she told him she would take it down...and did. but it looks like she put it back up, in secret....and has the BALLS to invite MY husband to her page.
first of all, she is lying to her BF about having one again, second she is inviting his best friend (he was a GM in our wedding) to view and be a friend on her secret page....which means he would have to lie too....and third...w t f is she sending a friend request to MY man and didn't send one to me??? i'm on his page....she might as well send to both us of so that it doesn't seem suspicious or anything.
DH tells me about all this, and i swear this hoodrat brings out the ghetto in me. i'm like 'w t is that biitch sending you shiit?' he laughed and was like 'well i'm glad i told you! don't worry about it, i'm not adding her to my page'
am i being crazy ladies?? i'm right to feel pissssed off right? (btw--i'm NOT mad at DH, he did the right thing and isn't responding to her and told me about it) i just feel like she is being disrespectful to her man as well as me.
is there anyone in your FH/DH's life that rubs you the wrong way like that?
soooo...there is this one girl in our friends circle that i don't like and i'm always suspect about. let me give you a quick backstory.....first if you looked up the word 'slutbag' in the dictionary, this girl's face would be there. she's the town bike, everyone's had a ride. she knows no boundaries...men...women....small woodland creatures (okay maybe that last one is a stretch, but i see the way she eyes a raccoon)...but i digress. she was a friend of a fellow classmate of DH's when he went back to school a few years ago. she tagged along with them one nite and after lots of drinking, she basically let my DH (just my BF at the time) and his friend know, that if they wanted to, they should feel free to run a train on her...and they can both have ride. ::excuse me while i vomit:: well DH's friend took her up on that offer, and shacked up with her that nite. 3 wks later she comes back to her one nite stand and says she's preggo. he's a good man, and rather than say 'i know you have been riden more than the ferris wheel, i'm gonna stand by your side thru this pregnancy'
they've been together ever since, (going on about 3 yrs now), but it's quite evident that they do NOT love each other. never have...never will. they fight constantly and he admits that he just doesn't feel that way and stays for the child. so they are quite sad as a couple, and i know that she's jealous of what DH and i have.
fast fwd to now. since i know she tried to get a tag team going with my DH years ago, i'm always gonna be suspect of this biitch. so DH tells me that she emailed him yesterday, and invited him to her myspace page. (DH went by there on sunday to give his friend some info on job related stuff and his email addy was there) this is the kicker....she had one up and her BF made her take it down, cause she was getting rather friendly on there and i think she was trying to set up dates with girls AND guys. (plus she had sexy pics up) so she told him she would take it down...and did. but it looks like she put it back up, in secret....and has the BALLS to invite MY husband to her page.
first of all, she is lying to her BF about having one again, second she is inviting his best friend (he was a GM in our wedding) to view and be a friend on her secret page....which means he would have to lie too....and third...w t f is she sending a friend request to MY man and didn't send one to me??? i'm on his page....she might as well send to both us of so that it doesn't seem suspicious or anything.
DH tells me about all this, and i swear this hoodrat brings out the ghetto in me. i'm like 'w t is that biitch sending you shiit?' he laughed and was like 'well i'm glad i told you! don't worry about it, i'm not adding her to my page'
am i being crazy ladies?? i'm right to feel pissssed off right? (btw--i'm NOT mad at DH, he did the right thing and isn't responding to her and told me about it) i just feel like she is being disrespectful to her man as well as me.
is there anyone in your FH/DH's life that rubs you the wrong way like that?
