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Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

Original post by MJDoc12

okay, let me preface by saying i'm NOT a jealous person at all. i usually find it a wasted emotion. but no one is perfect, and sometimes it can creep up once in a blue moon. but 99.9% of the time, i KNOW that DH is not going anywhere, cause well i'm pretty awesome. i think this issue i'm having is more about respect than anything, and that's why it made me so mad.

soooo...there is this one girl in our friends circle that i don't like and i'm always suspect about. let me give you a quick backstory.....first if you looked up the word 'slutbag' in the dictionary, this girl's face would be there. she's the town bike, everyone's had a ride. she knows no boundaries...men...women....small woodland creatures (okay maybe that last one is a stretch, but i see the way she eyes a raccoon)...but i digress. she was a friend of a fellow classmate of DH's when he went back to school a few years ago. she tagged along with them one nite and after lots of drinking, she basically let my DH (just my BF at the time) and his friend know, that if they wanted to, they should feel free to run a train on her...and they can both have ride. ::excuse me while i vomit:: well DH's friend took her up on that offer, and shacked up with her that nite. 3 wks later she comes back to her one nite stand and says she's preggo. he's a good man, and rather than say 'i know you have been riden more than the ferris wheel, i'm gonna stand by your side thru this pregnancy'

they've been together ever since, (going on about 3 yrs now), but it's quite evident that they do NOT love each other. never have...never will. they fight constantly and he admits that he just doesn't feel that way and stays for the child. so they are quite sad as a couple, and i know that she's jealous of what DH and i have.

fast fwd to now. since i know she tried to get a tag team going with my DH years ago, i'm always gonna be suspect of this biitch. so DH tells me that she emailed him yesterday, and invited him to her myspace page. (DH went by there on sunday to give his friend some info on job related stuff and his email addy was there) this is the kicker....she had one up and her BF made her take it down, cause she was getting rather friendly on there and i think she was trying to set up dates with girls AND guys. (plus she had sexy pics up) so she told him she would take it down...and did. but it looks like she put it back up, in secret....and has the BALLS to invite MY husband to her page.

first of all, she is lying to her BF about having one again, second she is inviting his best friend (he was a GM in our wedding) to view and be a friend on her secret page....which means he would have to lie too....and third...w t f is she sending a friend request to MY man and didn't send one to me??? i'm on his page....she might as well send to both us of so that it doesn't seem suspicious or anything.

DH tells me about all this, and i swear this hoodrat brings out the ghetto in me. i'm like 'w t is that biitch sending you shiit?' he laughed and was like 'well i'm glad i told you! don't worry about it, i'm not adding her to my page'

am i being crazy ladies?? i'm right to feel pissssed off right? (btw--i'm NOT mad at DH, he did the right thing and isn't responding to her and told me about it) i just feel like she is being disrespectful to her man as well as me.

is there anyone in your FH/DH's life that rubs you the wrong way like that?
MJDoc12 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by Licee15

Wow Melissa....

I must say MYSPACE is the devil.

It's annoying, but you know what you've got- Don't sweat it!



i agree that it can be evil for some ppl. but besides this, we've had no problems with myspace. he has a page and so do i....he has my password, i have his. (not that we ever have to use it...but just nice to know) i love leaving him silly msgs and stuff.
NinaChris07 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

I totally agree with you!

there are some women that I can think of when you ask that question.

It is a respect issue because they dont respect your marriage or your relationship and they don't care - that just isn't important to you.

I think its tacky!!!
lilangel Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

Usually there is always that one hooch that sees what you have and has to try to get in on it. You have every reason to be suspicious of her however try not to let that become displaced to your FH. It is obvious he sees her for what she really is.

stealthgroom Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by MJDoc12

but i just HATE that she is being disrespectful....to be hood and reference some 'Friday' but 'it's the principle of it...the principality!'

i've been singing to myself all morning 'I beat that biitch with a bat...I beat that biitch with a bat!'



ddaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN!

--the stealth groom
(don't nobody bother Melissa for 35-45 minutes)
SuzArtie69 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

Wow, but the story sounds familiar to a point. I know someone who believes that everyman out there is in love with her. Although I feel they just want to get into her pants. Who am I to say.

She has a habit of flirting and leading people on. Then when someone gets pissed and says something to her she gets all defensive and innocent. I didn't mean anything by it, yeah right.

It's funny too, because my MOH and I were going through some old pics and she noticed how this gal always has her T & A always sticking out.

You have every right to be pissed , but at least he told you and you didn't have to find out from someone else.
MJDoc12 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by stealthgroom


Posted by MJDoc12

but i just HATE that she is being disrespectful....to be hood and reference some 'Friday' but 'it's the principle of it...the principality!'

i've been singing to myself all morning 'I beat that biitch with a bat...I beat that biitch with a bat!'



ddaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN!

--the stealth groom
(don't nobody bother Melissa for 35-45 minutes)





i'm really a sweet person...really...i always say excuse me right before i bash a biitch's face in for trying to go after my man! HAHA!
DNicholes Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by MJDoc12

she's the town bike, everyone's had a ride. she knows no boundaries...men...women....small woodland creatures (okay maybe that last one is a stretch, but i see the way she eyes a raccoon)...but i digress.



LOL I don't mean to laugh but this line is HILARIOUS!!!!

I'm sorry she's such a whore..but FH totally did the right thing! Try not to let it bother you so much, she's just fishing for attention.

leafgirl Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

WAIT IS HIS PAGE PRIVATE?
CAUSE IF IT IS, TO PLAY DEVIL'S ADVOCATE SHE CAN'T SEE YOU ON HIS PAGE TO REQUEST YOU. AND IF IT ISN'T SHE'S JUST SLIMY.
YOU SHOULD WRITE TO HER THATS SHES A HO AND NEEDS TO GO ON MAURY TO FIGURE OUT WHO HER BABY'S DADDY IS... I FEEL BAD FOR YOUR FRIEND THAT IS WITH HER.
MJDoc12 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by kokopelia

WAIT IS HIS PAGE PRIVATE?
CAUSE IF IT IS, TO PLAY DEVIL'S ADVOCATE SHE CAN'T SEE YOU ON HIS PAGE TO REQUEST YOU. AND IF IT ISN'T SHE'S JUST SLIMY.
YOU SHOULD WRITE TO HER THATS SHES A HO AND NEEDS TO GO ON MAURY TO FIGURE OUT WHO HER BABY'S DADDY IS... I FEEL BAD FOR YOUR FRIEND THAT IS WITH HER.



no, DH's page is public, just like mine is. so if she found his page, she would totally see me on his

personally i think she is bitter cause her BF was a GM in our wedding, and i think she just assumed that i would ask her to be a BM in mine. (sorry no ho's allowed) so since then, she's been riding the bitter train!

btw--- @ the maury comment!
Elise&Matt Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)


Posted by MJDoc12

okay, let me preface by saying i'm NOT a jealous person at all. i usually find it a wasted emotion. but no one is perfect, and sometimes it can creep up once in a blue moon. but 99.9% of the time, i KNOW that DH is not going anywhere, cause well i'm pretty awesome. i think this issue i'm having is more about respect than anything, and that's why it made me so mad.

soooo...there is this one girl in our friends circle that i don't like and i'm always suspect about. let me give you a quick backstory.....first if you looked up the word 'slutbag' in the dictionary, this girl's face would be there. she's the town bike, everyone's had a ride. she knows no boundaries...men...women....small woodland creatures (okay maybe that last one is a stretch, but i see the way she eyes a raccoon)...but i digress. she was a friend of a fellow classmate of DH's when he went back to school a few years ago. she tagged along with them one nite and after lots of drinking, she basically let my DH (just my BF at the time) and his friend know, that if they wanted to, they should feel free to run a train on her...and they can both have ride. ::excuse me while i vomit:: well DH's friend took her up on that offer, and shacked up with her that nite. 3 wks later she comes back to her one nite stand and says she's preggo. he's a good man, and rather than say 'i know you have been riden more than the ferris wheel, i'm gonna stand by your side thru this pregnancy'

they've been together ever since, (going on about 3 yrs now), but it's quite evident that they do NOT love each other. never have...never will. they fight constantly and he admits that he just doesn't feel that way and stays for the child. so they are quite sad as a couple, and i know that she's jealous of what DH and i have.

fast fwd to now. since i know she tried to get a tag team going with my DH years ago, i'm always gonna be suspect of this biitch. so DH tells me that she emailed him yesterday, and invited him to her myspace page. (DH went by there on sunday to give his friend some info on job related stuff and his email addy was there) this is the kicker....she had one up and her BF made her take it down, cause she was getting rather friendly on there and i think she was trying to set up dates with girls AND guys. (plus she had sexy pics up) so she told him she would take it down...and did. but it looks like she put it back up, in secret....and has the BALLS to invite MY husband to her page.

first of all, she is lying to her BF about having one again, second she is inviting his best friend (he was a GM in our wedding) to view and be a friend on her secret page....which means he would have to lie too....and third...w t f is she sending a friend request to MY man and didn't send one to me??? i'm on his page....she might as well send to both us of so that it doesn't seem suspicious or anything.

DH tells me about all this, and i swear this hoodrat brings out the ghetto in me. i'm like 'w t is that biitch sending you shiit?' he laughed and was like 'well i'm glad i told you! don't worry about it, i'm not adding her to my page'

am i being crazy ladies?? i'm right to feel pissssed off right? (btw--i'm NOT mad at DH, he did the right thing and isn't responding to her and told me about it) i just feel like she is being disrespectful to her man as well as me.

is there anyone in your FH/DH's life that rubs you the wrong way like that?



Yeah there are quite a few.... It's not like I don't trust him...it's the hoochie mommas that I don't trust!!! They know he's taken lol and they still have the BALLZ to try!! I admit I do get jealous even though I know what FH & I have are solid hey it's been 10 yrs we must be doing something right!
Just so you know I would have reacted the same!! and I agree I think it's more about the respect than anything
leafgirl Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12



no, DH's page is public, just like mine is. so if she found his page, she would totally see me on his

personally i think she is bitter cause her BF was a GM in our wedding, and i think she just assumed that i would ask her to be a BM in mine. (sorry no ho's allowed) so since then, she's been riding the bitter train!

btw--- @ the maury comment!


Well than the ho is just jealous. She probably was sooo jealous at your gorgeous wedding. I know from experience girls can be caddy... Whatever at least you have a great trusting relationship w your hubby and that is something that many do not...

prettyprincess07 Posted:

Re: Is there any girl in FH/DH's life that just brings IT out in you?? (long vent)

I stand by my thoughts: Women can be caniving BIOTCHES!!! Im not using that statement to speak about all women, but sometimes females do things that make you want to just SLAP them. I have a very low tolerance when it comes to females. In this world you can have a women that has been your best friend for years, that willl want your life, man and when the oppurtunity shows itself she will jump at it. Then you have females that never want to see you happy and do sadistic things to sabatoge stuff b/c jealousy is in their hearts. We laugh at shows like Maury/Jerry when the so called best friend/friends are the ones with the hubby/boyfriend saying that she didnt deserve him and things like that. You gotta look at females sometimes and wonder what they are thinking, why they do these things?

JMO

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