Is there something about your wedding that you would let your FH.......

billandme Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:02 PM

Is there something about your wedding that you would let your FH.......

..........have complete control over?

I've been thining about that lately. He's been great with all the wedding planning......giving great advice, helping with vendors.....etc. BUT, would I really give him COMPLETE control over something regarding the wedding???? Something that you would nave NO say over at all????

vmystique33 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:05 PM

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Im letting him pick the cake b/c he says all the ones i pick out are too plain Whatever!! Oh and i forgot I wanted the BM dresses to be sage but he wanted lilac really bad I wonder about him sometimes

bettybcafe Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:16 PM

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Posted by vmystique33

Im letting him pick the cake b/c he says all the ones i pick out are too plain Whatever!! Oh and i forgot I wanted the BM dresses to be sage but he wanted lilac really bad I wonder about him sometimes

Hmm..dont know about complete control..but similiar to Valerie..he wants to choose the cake..so I gave him that

MF9282 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:21 PM

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Well I am a bit of a control freak and my fiance has not been much help, but I think u must have some say in it. Men don't realize we need to call and keep on these people to make sure things are done properly. I say don't give him full control but let him feel like he is

werock0709 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:30 PM

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The rings!! He's pretty adamant on what he wants, and by the way, I won't know what my wedding band looks like untill the day of I have ALL the faith in the world about his taste though.

PegaLega Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:32 PM

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Nope! He forget to tell me the most important thing if I let him go to a vendor, if it was picking something out he would decide on the one that didnt 'go' with everything else!
I am letting him help me pick our cake and invitations

TnOiOnL Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:35 PM

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whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa 1st of all.. are you back???!!!! If so..

and 2nd- I will NOT let him have complete control over ANYTHING!!!!!! Seriously though, Ive included him in everything that I've done and vice versa.. we're doing this together 100%

AlmostKulak Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:36 PM

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I am letting him have complete control of the music and entertainment, I think it will be perfect because he knows his music, plus his friend his the DJ, although I think he may be planning some live band for the beginning of the reception that has me a little worried

kitty1224 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 06:59 PM

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He can have completer control over the Groomsmen gift and thats it.

Mooshyboo Posted: Dec 18, 2006 07:44 PM

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I was told i have no sayyyyy in tuxes... (Fh said: He has no say in what I am wearing... it is his wedding day too.. he said it so cutely he had a point so i am giving it to him... but I will be giving his Best men some direction and what i want..

aprlflwr Posted: Dec 18, 2006 07:51 PM

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I am asking him to make follow-up calls and confirm things. I write everything down, including the numbers he has to call, and who to ask for and exactly what to ask. My work schedule has been hectic lately that I don't have time during the typical work day to make phone calls. He has been pretty good so far, I may give him the option to book the limos all on his own, but I am not entirely sure about that yet.

AlBaBride Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:36 PM

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the honeymoon....we know where we're going, I wish he'd just take control over the details!!!

Unapearla Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:37 PM

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The honeymoon...he really wanted Hawaii.

TLC1018 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:38 PM

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nope...everything we have planned has been together...except anything related to me! I want to be a complete surprise!

DNicholes Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:39 PM

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He's on groomsmen gift patrol.....that's about it

I mean he was involved in everything else (ok, except flowers! & the colors of the wedding!haha)

but complete control....I just don't know!

EverlovingEv Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:41 PM

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Groomsmen gifts (although I'm sure he'll need suggestions from me)
His wedding band (although I'm insisting that he spruces it up with a diamond or two)
His shoes
Guess that's it. But I have to say that FI has been absolutely incredible during this whole wedding process. He went with me to 60 halls before we found the right one. Went with me to 6 videographers. Went with me to 3 bands. Went with me to 3 Photographers. Went with me to 6 florists and hasn't ever said a word about not liking this stuff! He's honestly incredible!

billandme Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:43 PM

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Posted by DNicholes

but complete control....I just don't know!

I know......what a crazy thought hey????

I just don't know if I could let that happen!!!!!

I swear....if he had control over the tuxes, then I know I would be walking into a scene from Dumb & Dumber!!!!!!!
I can just see it......a line of handsome men in ruffle baby blue and peach tuxes!!!!!!!

eperlman Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:48 PM

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Posted by DNicholes

He's on groomsmen gift patrol.....that's about it

I mean he was involved in everything else (ok, except flowers! & the colors of the wedding!haha)

but complete control....I just don't know!

LOL!! Ditto on that... I'm still waiting for him to send Thank You's out for gifts his side of the family sent us. His mother is making him do it. Other that that, he's just helping out

ef922 Posted: Dec 18, 2006 08:51 PM

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NEVER.............I feel bad because I'm always asking his opinion and I realized that it doesn't really count! I can't believe I said that out loud! Now I feel even more guilty!!!!!!