Is this acceptable??

stephanief Posted: Feb 21, 2006 05:43 PM

Is this acceptable??

Me and FH are buying another wedding ring to wear on our honeymoon (I do not want to risk losing my diamond one in the ocean or anything). We are going to use both rings during the ceremony so they can both be 'blessed' . My ?? is after the wedding, is it ok if I wear my diamond one on my left finger with my e-ring and the plain one on my right hand? I would hate to wear the plain one on the honeymoon and then put it away. Here are the two rings:

TIA

Steph

angnick Posted: Feb 21, 2006 05:52 PM

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Of course, you can do whatever you like!
I think it is a great idea!

sr081906 Posted: Feb 21, 2006 06:10 PM

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It is totally acceptable. The e-ring on the right hand seems to be the new 'trend' anyway.

meniasta Posted: Feb 21, 2006 06:13 PM

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you know that in poland woman wear ering on right hand???

BJandDan Posted: Feb 21, 2006 06:20 PM

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I work in construction so I am getting two wedding bands as well.That is what I am going to do.

kittythestray Posted: Feb 21, 2006 06:28 PM

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I am having 2 also, a plain platinum and a diamond eternity - I'm wearing all 3 on my left, the plain one first that I never plan on taking off, and then the diamond ones I'll take on and off

thefirstlady Posted: Feb 21, 2006 06:30 PM

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I think that's fine, it's your rings and hands! I actually know someone who wears all 3 on one finger!

bournebride Posted: Feb 21, 2006 10:26 PM

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I think you could do what every you want. I like that idea. Double the memories!!!!

larryswife2be Posted: Feb 21, 2006 11:36 PM

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Sure, why not? That's a responsible thing to do.

Laura&Phil Posted: Feb 22, 2006 12:57 AM

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Sounds fine to me! I'm leaving my e-ring at home and and just wearing my wedding band but it's not worth all that much anyway so I'm not too worried about it- I got a white gold band with little diamonds and my e-ring is plat so it'll be a good excuse to get that matching plat ring if anything happens to the one I'm getting married with!!

They are all just lovely symbols of your love and it'll be upsetting if anything happens but as long as your marriage is strong it's OK. Rings can be replaced!

azoodie Posted: Feb 22, 2006 08:51 AM

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anything in my opinion is acceptable! we didn't wear any rings on the hm. i didn't want anything to happen to them and we didn't care if we were wearing them or not

hmpena Posted: Feb 22, 2006 08:57 AM

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I think that is fine. I wore my eternity band on the HM at night and when I wasn't at the beach. The rest of the time, my e-ring and wedding ring was in the hotel safe.

JPC1125 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:49 AM

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I ordered a fake CZ ring for the HM and I didnt have it blessed- Im not very supersticious about that and when the HM was over, I felt no guilt putting it away

Im going to wear that one everytime I go on vacation so I dont lose my diamond band which BTW is almost exactly like yours

Do what you feel comfortable with

MissingTheBGene Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:56 AM

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My friend did that, I don't see why not! BTW, we got the same exact rings!

Summer101 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 10:37 AM

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Yes and it is a good idea too to buy another ring because my FBIL lost his ring in the ocean on the Honeymoon.

MrsFelix Posted: Feb 22, 2006 10:59 AM

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I think that would be fine. Nowadays people do have several rings. My FH will have two as well. One for everyday use (plain for work) and one for all the other time.

R&J0806 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 02:27 PM

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I think you can do that -- or how about putting the diamond ring & the plain one on your left hand? A jeweler suggested that to me and it looked really cool.

With regard to your e-ring, a lot of people put in on their right hand after getting married because of the shape of it. Someone told me (though I'm not sure its true) that most women in europe do that, too.