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cj21512 Posted: Mar 21, 2013 09:57 PM+
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Posted: Mar 21, 2013 09:57 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I know that out of respect for our country and flag, that when the National Anthem is being played/sung, it is respectful to stand still and not speak. My wedding is 7/4/13 and I found a techno remix of the National Anthem and I wanted to know your opinion ~ would it be disrespectful to have that song played as the entrance song for the bridal party? Obviously the MC will be announcing them and people will be entering/dancing. Is this acceptable or not? Honest opinions please as I don't want to disrespect the country I feel so lucky to be able to live in. Thanks!
p.s. Also, if you know of any patriotic songs that are upbeat that could work as an entrance song to get the party started?
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Kristin31613 Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:05 PM+
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Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:05 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I think it would be fine
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ladygoodman Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:12 PM+
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Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:12 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I don't think it's disrespectful at all. And just to double check I asked my brother who is a veteran of both the Iraq and Afghanistan wars and he didn't think it was either.
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MattandTima2014 Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:19 PM+
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Posted: Mar 21, 2013 10:19 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I think that sounds like an awsome idea! I love it!
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sgf2 Posted: Mar 21, 2013 11:54 PM+
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Posted: Mar 21, 2013 11:54 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I think it's a really cute and creative idea!! And it's not like you're burning the flag, you're actually honoring the holiday in a unique way!

If you're still not sure, if there's anyone you're inviting to your wedding who you think might consider this offensive, ask them the question in a hypothetical way. Then you'll know how your guests will react.
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natalierose1085 Posted: Mar 22, 2013 08:21 AM+
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Posted: Mar 22, 2013 08:21 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Is this disrespectful?


Posted by sgf2

I think it's a really cute and creative idea!! And it's not like you're burning the flag, you're actually honoring the holiday in a unique way!

If you're still not sure, if there's anyone you're inviting to your wedding who you think might consider this offensive, ask them the question in a hypothetical way. Then you'll know how your guests will react.



I agree! Personally I don't think it is offensive at all, I think it is a cool idea! But for a piece of mind you should definitely ask a family member or a friend, and someone who you think might be most likely to be offended easily by things, or ask someone who is a veteran because he or she will have very high respect for this country and will probably be honest with you about it. That is the best way to judge your crowd I think.
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KK19 Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:27 PM+
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Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:27 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

For some reason I'm not a fan and I can't explain why. I love the idea but I think I'd like it better if it were something similar (like God Bless the USA) but just not the National Anthem. I'm a little weird like that though, maybe it's just me. I totally see the fun in the idea though!
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sandr325 Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:34 PM+
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Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:34 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I don't think it is offensive.

Why don't you call a local VFW and ask their opinion?
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Jess41 Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:54 PM+
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Posted: Mar 22, 2013 04:54 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

I think its a fun idea. You're honoring the country
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Bklynbride2013 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:01 PM+
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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:01 PM bride-minus.png

Is this disrespectful?

not disrespectful in my opinion, but also isn't everyone standing during the entrances?
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