Lord!!! I've been soo full of nerves and anxiety!! The wedding is just 3 months away and I feel SUPER stressed out!!
It doesn't help that I live in Atlanta and my wedding is in NY.
In addition to the wedding nerves, I'm still shopping for a second dress!!! I love my current dress but I want a second dress!!
FH has been very supportive and understanding and I LOVE IT!!! But that is not taking away from the wedding stress!!! What can I do!!!???
JoAnnJuneBride
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Yeah Emily!!! I see you got your dress!! I wasn't on for a while How was it?? Did you get it early in the day or go back??
What kind of second dress are you looking to get?? Would you believe I am getting another dress too..lol...Us brides are all the same!
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Try to relax and realize that your day is going to be great no matter. I had a bit of a breakdown this past weekend with all the stress so i know how you feel.
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Yeah Emily!!! I see you got your dress!! I wasn't on for a while How was it?? Did you get it early in the day or go back??
What kind of second dress are you looking to get?? Would you believe I am getting another dress too..lol...Us brides are all the same!
Jo Ann - Its been crazy!! I even got a little part-time for Saturdays.. Its ok...
On the Running of the Brides... I would do it again!! I love it!! I was there about 7AM and by the time theyopen the door I was close to the front!! hehehe
I had a good group of girls and I picked out a gorgeous dress!!!
I want to order a Mori Lee Dutchess Dress!!
FH is content with knowing I already have one but i'm STUCK on the Mori Lee Dress.. Its Gorgeous!!!
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Try to relax and realize that your day is going to be great no matter. I had a bit of a breakdown this past weekend with all the stress so i know how you feel.
Gloria... Its hard!! Specially knowing its a less than 13 weeks away!! Wow.. I can't believe it and I need to do soo much...
ETA: I go by the Knots checklist and I'm doing good!! But I feel there is something missing!!! IDK what!!
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I think we all feel like this from time to time... I've only got 10 days left and my mood chantges by the minute!! Literally!! LOL. But, just try to breathe, and remember the reason you are doing all this...
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Posted by GRod2Be
Try to relax and realize that your day is going to be great no matter. I had a bit of a breakdown this past weekend with all the stress so i know how you feel.
Gloria... Its hard!! Specially knowing its a less than 13 weeks away!! Wow.. I can't believe it and I need to do soo much...
ETA: I go by the Knots checklist and I'm doing good!! But I feel there is something missing!!! IDK what!!
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It truly is hard . Theres a checklist floating around here that is really good and i was surprisingly doing well. You should look at that one it's very detailed and it could possibly help you figure out what you are missing. At the end you'll be okay try not to stress
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Dani - mood changes constantly.. one moment I'm crying and the next I'm SUPER excited.. ( I think those are signs of BIPOLAR!!! )... But regardless FH talks to me and lets me know how important this day is !! Awww
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I feel your pain! Yesterday my stomach was in a knot all day. Hopefully I'll get all of the anxiety out now so I won't be a mess the day of.
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Ohh honey it's ok I completely understand how you feel. Planning a wedding is actually very stressful and don't worry you aren't bipolar cause if you were half of us would be too..lol... Kuddos to FH for being there for you, trust in what he tells guys..haves are so lucky to not be emotional wrecks like us females
If this planning is driving you too much up the wall here is my suggestion take a weekend. week, whatever time you need to wind down go out with FH. I told FH that we weren't allowed to discuss anything wedding for the days he had off and during my tests and it actaully brought me back into a state of calm. My head was clear and I was more focused on my Midterms and ready to tackle the wedding issues waiting for me when the break was up. HTH
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just try and relax hun dont let the stress cloud the happiness behind the planning
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I live in Atlanta but I am getting married on LI as well. Where in Atlanta are you? We should do get a frosty beverage and calm our nerves! LOL
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I started planning, and booked it all over a year ago, and now I'm less than two months away and am getting stressed regardless. It's mainly about the payments, because I planned the wedding making much more money than I'm making now, but it's also the little things I don't have done, that couldn't be done early, and that I don't really have time for now!
You are not alone!!!
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YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY NORMAL!!!
I started planning about a year ago and was cool as a cucumber. But now with only two months left, I have been the queen of mood swings! I can physically FEEL the moods changing! I expect this feeling will last up until the last day before, but then the day of will be our time to relax and just enjoy
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And I live in Virginia, so I totally feel your pain. I'm from the Island, but haven't lived there in 13 years, nor have my parents, nor does anyone in my bridal party but my Maid of Honor.
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I think I have totally lost my mind. The nightmares have set in on a regular basis. I never thought I would feel like this. Oh well...the time is flying, it will be over before we know it and then we will say we miss it lol...I will not miss the panic I feel at night though !!!
