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Is this funny to you????

MsGibson07 Posted:

Is this funny to you????

I sent out all my invites including my bridesmaids. I get back one of my rsvp's from one of my bridesmaid saying she will not attend? Do you find this to be funny or am I overreacting?

MrsB2BE Posted:

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I hope she is just being funny

WilliesBride Posted:

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I hope that she was trying to be funny too.......

qtdimps23 Posted:

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2 of my BMs did that...but they added Just Kidding to the RSVP.

micknjohn Posted:

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she must be joking

Maybride07 Posted:

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Honestly, I would find that funny....
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by Maybride07

Honestly, I would find that funny....



me too. they were just being sillly i'm sure...my BM and MOH were like 'do we REALLY have to return the RSVP? you KNOW we're coming!'

don't get upset--they are just trying to be funny.
Maybride07 Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by Maybride07

Honestly, I would find that funny....



me too. they were just being sillly i'm sure...my BM and MOH were like 'do we REALLY have to return the RSVP? you KNOW we're coming!'

don't get upset--they are just trying to be funny.



Well said....Don't sweat the small stuff. Laugh it off your getting married soon!!
Noogiefan Posted:

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Posted by MsGibson07

I sent out all my invites including my bridesmaids. I get back one of my rsvp's from one of my bridesmaid saying she will not attend? Do you find this to be funny or am I overreacting?



She could've been doing it as a joke - but she should realize how serious brides take RSVPs. I say don't give a reaction at all. If she brings it up just say you didn't find it all that amusing and let it go.

No sense in making more of a deal than it really is.
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by Maybride07

Honestly, I would find that funny....



me too. they were just being sillly i'm sure...my BM and MOH were like 'do we REALLY have to return the RSVP? you KNOW we're coming!'

don't get upset--they are just trying to be funny.



She is trying to be funny. I didn't even send my BMs' rsvp cards because duh they are obviously going to be there lol didnt even mail em! So unceremonious lol we were at a diner and I just plunked the invites in their purses. They werent offended and you shouldn't be either. Its just wedding stress-lots of things make us alot more crazy then they should.
monelwookie Posted:

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Drv0716 Posted:

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One of my bridemaids did that, but she crossed it out & wrote 'Just kidding!' & then filled in the line for # of people attending. I'm sure it was a joke.

billandme Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by Maybride07

Honestly, I would find that funny....



me too. they were just being sillly i'm sure...my BM and MOH were like 'do we REALLY have to return the RSVP? you KNOW we're coming!'

don't get upset--they are just trying to be funny.



I agree! Totally funny!!!!
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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yeah it's all good fun...


my brother made a funny actually...

my RSVP reads:

__Accept with pleasure

__Decline with regret


funny brother put a check next to accept crossed out pleasure and decline. so really it read: Accept with regret!
MsGibson07 Posted:

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THanks Ladies, I guess I was overreacting but like some of you said... So much is on my plate I don't have time to laugh
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by MsGibson07

THanks Ladies, I guess I was overreacting but like some of you said... So much is on my plate I don't have time to laugh



It happens! sometimes we get so sensitive as brides!

my friends had a GREAT sense of humor on RSVPs...one of them wrote all of it like next to the 'please reply by' part she wrote 'how dare you tell me what to do!' or on the part of accepts she wrote 'Acceepts with pleasure and will be drunk as hell'

another friend put funny stickers on it and wrote HELL YEAH!!! all over it.

BunnyBride Posted:

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Posted by Maybride07


Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by Maybride07

Honestly, I would find that funny....



me too. they were just being sillly i'm sure...my BM and MOH were like 'do we REALLY have to return the RSVP? you KNOW we're coming!'

don't get upset--they are just trying to be funny.



Well said....Don't sweat the small stuff. Laugh it off your getting married soon!!



I agree...relax..they were just teasing

ETA: Just read you recent post! Glad you are feeling better
JMM7876 Posted:

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im sure they are just trying to tease you alittle bit!
I am expecting at least one bridesmaid or groomsmen to do that !
joan_db Posted:

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I'm sure she's just joking...one of my FH grooms men put plus 10 guest and at the back of the RSVP card he put all the names of his friends with a big smiley face.

If it really bothers you, give her a call and just asked nicely.
Flutterbye922 Posted:

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I don't think she meant any harm by it

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