During the past couple of weeks, my FH is getting on my last nerve more than not. Don't get me wrong, I love him more than anything in the universe but it just seems the little things that usually don't irritate me are grating on me. It's not even anything bad! I don't know if it's the stress of work, planning and the upcoming holidays or what. Coincidentally, I've also not gotten a good nights sleep during those same two weeks. Maybe I'm cranky due to lack of sleep? I don't know. Just venting! Thanks ladies.
autumn
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It's stress and not getting enough sleep. I am going threw it also. Check out the post subject for stressing.
Katie&Chris2006
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I am in a similar situation. I have been engaged less than a month and all of a sudden little things that Fh does and says annoys me. I know I am just stressed, but can't figure out how to stop being so high strung!
October Bliss
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Theresa - I feel your pain. FH & I were like that a few weeks back - remember? IMHO, and from what I have heard, it is totally normal. But here is a for you!
JXNOscar
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I feel the same exact way I am dont know what it is........
jilmadison
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That happens to me too sometimes, dont worry i am sure it will go away. Certain days i cannot stand FI! But I love him sooo much I eventualy get over the little things.
Colleen1230
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It happens to me also, I love him and want to spend my life with him, but sometimes he's so annoying! I think it's normal, I'm sure he feels the same way at times.
SillyBeans
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I got engaged the same day you did I feel like I've been so nasty to FH recently! I get so easily annoyed now. It's getting better now that I am getting used to the idea of us being engaged, and I'm not freaking out about the wedding planning as much as I was to begin with.
BKtoLI
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Very normal indeed!!!
We never fought before we got engaged, and yet since we have fought a lot!! And over stupid things no less!!!
Attribute it to lack of sleep, stress, PMS, whatever!!
lipglossjunky73
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We all go thru phases of this, but stress is a major cause for almost all of those feelings, plus sleep dep is nasty to our systems!
Also, if you two havent spent quality time together, this could happen - we went thru a time where all we did was work, sleep, and complain (well, I did!), and one day we just went for a date - out to dinner, drinks - no stress talk, just fun... We had to take this time for each other or we were really going to get lost in the unimportant stuff!
To handle stress - drink water, work out, do some yoga, and then go home, rent a stupid movie and cuddle all night!!!
Don't worry - it is so normal - think abt your best girl friends - we don't spend THIS much time with them and we still get annoyed now and then with them...
