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is this normal?

Bride2Be06 Posted:

is this normal?

Because I am freaking out...
I only have about 60 responses and I wrote

Respond on or before January 7th


Do people just wait until then or what????
HELP!!!!!!!!
Bride2Be06 Posted:

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by the way...I need a minimum of 125...
sk1nny27 Posted:

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i do not know why but yes people will wait till then. dont freek yet. but just so you know people will be putting them in the mail on the 7th.

Bride2Be06 Posted:

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EJSD2006 Posted:

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Don't freak you still have almost 2 weeks and for my sisters wedding people waited until the very last minute to respond. And especially for you because alot of people were so preoccupied with holiday shopping. I'm sure now that Christmas is over you'll start to see the rest of the responses.
06NovBride Posted:

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if it was my family i wouldn't be surprised....they are all last minute people. i heard that you will start to get a lot of yes responses right around or right after your rsvp date

Bride2Be06 Posted:

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really?

Doesn't it just freak you out though when you dont have all the responses in right away!
lacey&mark Posted:

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i believe its quite normal for people to wait to the very last minute to mail those suckers out. i can imagine its quite annoying and stress-inducing to not have them all back in a timely fashion, but try not to freak out too much. you will get a lot back before and after jan 7. and then you get to sit down with your phone book and call all the losers who did not respond at all. good luck! ~lacey

M&LSept1606 Posted:

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you still have two weeks! don't worry, it's too soon to freek

JazzyT Posted:

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People are procrastinators...call them up if anything

lrs2005 Posted:

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Yes it is completely normal. You cannot call until after the deadline passes. I know that your wedding is the most important thing to you, but for everyone else, they were preoccupied with the hollidays. I am sure you will get a lot of RSVPs back after the new year. I think 2 weeks before my rsvp date I was still missing more than 1/2 of my responses. you are doing fine.

Bride2Be06 Posted:

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call all the losers who did not respond at all.



thanks girls ... I feel better!
AlliNMatt06 Posted:

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You also have to remember that it is the holidays. Post offices are backed up with mail. And are closed for the holidays. You will get cards this week I bet. People wait to the last minute for everything!!

lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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I can see myself sending out a post like this close to my day....

kmkelly Posted:

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I'm sure you'll be fine, but yeah, I'd be freaking too.

FallBride05 Posted:

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Posted by Bride2Be06

Because I am freaking out...
I only have about 60 responses and I wrote

Respond on or before January 7th


Do people just wait until then or what????
HELP!!!!!!!!



Unfortunately...Yes! Would you believe we actually got an RSVP AFTER the wedding??? And it didn't get delayed in the mail either, it was postmarked two days after the wedding!
eroxgirl Posted:

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Totally normal. Some people think the RSVP date is the date they're supposed to mail it back to you and some people think if they're not coming they don't have to respond at all. And then there are those who might never have received the invitation in the first place, so you might want to call the people who don't respond by the 7th just to be sure.
Bride2Be06 Posted:

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Totally normal. Some people think the RSVP date is the date they're supposed to mail it back to you and some people think if they're not coming they don't have to respond at all. And then there are those who might never have received the invitation in the first place, so you might want to call the people who don't respond by the 7th just to be sure.



OY what a headache
ali120206 Posted:

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All of my friends say this happens to them. Then they have people who they have to stalk after the date the responses are due.

I'm sure with the holidays people have been mega busy so they will respond soon!!!
SPITSBRIDE Posted:

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Yes they do and some people don't respond at all...you'll see, it's terrible!

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