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is this normal?

MayWeddingGrl Posted:

is this normal?

have or are any of you brides whose wedding is a couple of months away feeling completely drained from all this wedding planning??

took a hiatus from wedding stuff back during the holidays and have totally lost my gusto to want to plan anything else.
Espo22 Posted:

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That is how I felt for MONTHS before the holidays...I was so overwhelmed and drained. Since the new year though i am motivated and excited. It happens but it will all come back again

Browneyesncute Posted:

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yes its normal i felt that way but now i'm into it again

nifheim Posted:

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I felt like poo about the wedding for a few months but now its so close its like in hyper mode where i go over details endlessly in my mind and its horrible.

I just need this wedding to be done with all ready so i can move on with my life IoI
truelove5803 Posted:

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I finally got the wedding bug and now I can't stop! I think getting so close, I just am so excited that I feel like everything I do for the wedding makes it seem so much closer!

MayWeddingGrl Posted:

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good to know, thought maybe it was just me!!

yeh, I can't wait for my new life with FH to start, this waiting is driving me
bemyyoko Posted:

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totally normal.
JimmysPants Posted:

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After the holidays and New Year I was also motivated and excited but now I see how much is coming out of our bank account for vendors etc...and Im feeling drained again like we are never going to have enough. I know we will but I just keep saying to myself we are not going to have enough $ all day long...Im goin to have a panic attack for sure one of these days.

Autumn08 Posted:

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Yes. I was planning while finishing school so for a few months each semester I didn't do much at all. Then I would tackle something like gown shopping, BM dress shopping or anything and then I'd be excited.

As you can tell I've been posting alot again so I'm in excitement mode.
Emily08 Posted:

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This happened to me before the holidays and I've been on a roll since (although I do have my moments ). I think it's only normal because it is a very overwhelming process, so don't worry about it. Make a list of the things that need to get done and slowly work your way through it. That's how I got back into the swing of things.
dream426 Posted:

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OMG!!! I am going crazy..haha I am doing something wedding related everyday now and I am not even close to being done. I am so drained and freaking out.

mRm2008 Posted:

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i felt like that over the holidays as well. i tried to start back with small things to get my A$$ motivated. now i am feeling better and moving on.

Melissa313 Posted:

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That is why i stopped even going on LIW for months, I still did a few wedding things but after getting the 'big' things done I just needed a break before planning the rest, but now that Im getting close I am back full force

mandag Posted:

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I have definitely been feeling drained. I feel like May is forever away, I've had some family drama, FH is in the process of looking for a new job, I'm applying to school...

I feel like we're juggling a thousand things but we can't move forward on ANYTHING right now.

I'm hoping in the next month or so things settle down and get better!

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