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Is this rude?

Original post by cheercoach

My FH Uncle Vito is coming from Italy for our wedding and he asked FH if he can be the best man. FH already asked his HS best friend. Would it be rude to tell him he is being demoted to groomsman. FH and his Uncle are 7 years apart, even though he lives in Italy they have always been very close and visit each other often. There is always a 'cross in the road'..Very frustrating.

PaddysGirl Posted:

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Posted by cheercoach

Is that doable? I have never seen this, it would be perfect




Very doable. We have 2 BM and 2 MOH
spdy540 Posted:

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Dh had 2 best men 1 was his only brother the other was his best friend since childhood here how they looked in pics and at the church



TeemHenn Posted:

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Two best men!! We are doing the same thing!

TeemHenn Posted:

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*** Also wanted to mention, that I am in a wedding next year and there will be 2 matrons of honor! Do whatever you want, it's your day!

jenclifwed Posted:

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FH also has two best men! His brother and his best friend. its totally common and ok!
fdnybride163 Posted:

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the real question should be 'who ASKS to be someones best man??'

I mean if he was that close with his uncle he should have asked him...

but reguardless, 2 BMs are fine, we are havng both of FHs brothers as Best Men
FutureMcBride Posted:

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I have seen 2 best men as well!!!! Totally nothing wrong with it!

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