Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding?

sueg25 Posted: Oct 06, 2013 08:52 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding?

Hi Ladies! Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with this. My FH is driving me crazy wanting to see pictures of my dress before the wedding. I keep telling him I want it to be a surprise, but he still wants to see it. He feels like he's being left out. I want to the look on his face when we start taking pictures before the ceremony. Any advice?? Thanks!

cj21512 Posted: Oct 06, 2013 09:12 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

I've never heard of a groom seeing the dress before the wedding day!

cupcakegal930 Posted: Oct 06, 2013 09:16 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

Nope mine wants no part of seeing my dress!

Diorprincess Posted: Oct 06, 2013 09:35 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

tell him noooooooooooo lol. I wouldn't even let FH see my old dress which I'm not even wearing lol.

Lori0413 Posted: Oct 06, 2013 10:19 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

He's supposed to be left out of the loop, LOL! I won't even show FH pics of me in dresses that I hated.

cconaty94 Posted: Oct 06, 2013 10:44 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

Haha we have the opposite issue, I'm the one who feels weird that I have secret pictures on my phone and secret text messages to his mom and sister lol. But I am definitely NOT showing him the dress. Im not totally sure why its a big deal..he's not exactly a big fashion guy, he doesnt care about the sweeheart neckline or chapel length train lol...but it is a big deal, it just is!

Angie2014 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 12:23 AM

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Posted by Lori0413

He's supposed to be left out of the loop, LOL! I won't even show FH pics of me in dresses that I hated.

This! It is really important to me that FH doesn't see any pictures of me in the dress or even accessories. He knows it too, and he has never asked me.

ladygoodman Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:27 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding?

I'm the one that wants to show fh but he doesnt wanna see it. Dont show em. Let him be surprised

guitarstikibars Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:33 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

cets1290 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:38 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

my fh doesn't care at all about the gown lolol- he accidentally saw a pic of it on my phone that i showed to one of our friends and he forgot what it looks like already

winnie52376 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:56 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

Definitely not! I'm already a little bummed we are doing a first look instead of him seeing me for the first time walking down the aisel.

ldequatro Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:56 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

NO WAY!! its bad luck!!!!

ldequatro Posted: Oct 07, 2013 08:57 AM

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Posted by winnie52376

Definitely not! I'm already a little bummed we are doing a first look instead of him seeing me for the first time walking down the aisel.

Same here, but I really want to be a part of my cocktail hour, and i want my bridal party to be part of that too

dariamarie2 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 09:57 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

I don't even want FH to see me in my 2nd choice dress. The only thing FH has seen was a picture of my wedding shoes and he felt weird about that lol.

sandr325 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 10:07 AM

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No. My husband did not see anything wedding related. After my hair trial I took out my hair. I looked like Medusa and I think he was a little frightened.

The only part of my dress he saw was the lining. I got a swatch and used it for his tux shirt since it was off white.

Terriechick Posted: Oct 07, 2013 10:45 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

My FH does not want to se it. He believes in the old tradition. one night we were at a bar with freinds and see saw me walking around him secretly with my phone and he was like ooh its the picture I am not allowed to see..LOL

butrfly1rm Posted: Oct 07, 2013 10:52 AM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

noooo

winnie52376 Posted: Oct 07, 2013 12:01 PM

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Posted by ldequatro

Posted by winnie52376

Definitely not! I'm already a little bummed we are doing a first look instead of him seeing me for the first time walking down the aisel.

Same here, but I really want to be a part of my cocktail hour, and i want my bridal party to be part of that too

My thoughts exactly. We will try to make the first look as special as possible. This way we can enjoy the rest of our wedding!

MrsDtoBe Posted: Oct 07, 2013 12:20 PM

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

No way!! He hasn't asked - he knows better. I'm really not even showing anyone. My mom, MOH, aunt, FMIL and FSIL have seen it in person and I am taking my Grandma to see it this weekend. Other than that, I haven't shown it to anyone and FH will definitely NOT be seeing it!