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Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding?

Original post by sueg25

Hi Ladies! Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with this. My FH is driving me crazy wanting to see pictures of my dress before the wedding. I keep telling him I want it to be a surprise, but he still wants to see it. He feels like he's being left out. I want to the look on his face when we start taking pictures before the ceremony. Any advice?? Thanks!

Belle21 Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

No, he's not. I'm still looking, though, and if I go with my current #1, he's seen it but doesn't know. I was showing him the website of one of my favorite dress designers, and one of the dresses he pointed out that he liked happened to be the one that I had tried on and loved. I figure there's no harm done there even if I do go with that dress.

Bride2Be14 Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

Noo! I don't even want him to see me the night before the wedding!Adds more excitement!

meejack1110 Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

I'm not supersticious about the dress but I still don't want him to see it, he doesn't want to either, he didn't even want to see pics of me in ones I decided against or in a veil I tried on as a joke. He wants to have 0 idea of what I look like all 'brided' up, which I think is adorable! lol

aiavaro1 Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

Don't do it... you want that nice look on his face and surprise when he sees you in the dress for the first time.. if you show him a picture of the dress or it hanging on the hanger, it won't have the same affect as you in it.

ldequatro Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

the only people who saw my dress in person is my mom, 2 grandmas, aunt and my 2 matron of honors.. thats it.. my girls in my bridal party saw the link from davids briday.. other than that, i want everyone to be surpised!

Lguido Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

No way! He will see it when I walk down the aisle in church!

Lisa and Steven Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

NO!! I hear it is bad luck and FH said he does not want to see it until he sees me walking down the aisle

Poggi Posted:

Re: Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding?


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Posted by winnie52376

Definitely not! I'm already a little bummed we are doing a first look instead of him seeing me for the first time walking down the aisel.



Same here, but I really want to be a part of my cocktail hour, and i want my bridal party to be part of that too



My thoughts exactly. We will try to make the first look as special as possible. This way we can enjoy the rest of our wedding!



This! FH will see it at the reveal but not before!
Sugaplum111905 Posted:

Is your groom seeing your dress before the wedding? - Long Island Weddings

FH never asked any details about the dress... With that being said... I think you should show him a picture of a 'fake' dress that way he thinks he got to see your dress but you still surprise him the day of.

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