I don't understand why everytime I say 'my husband' this or 'my husband' that people immediatly ask 'How OLD are you?' Is it REALLY any of your business? Who would ask that? I would NEVER! Is it rude? or just me?
Young Brides... do you get this often?
Shorty McBride
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aHEM, it's KristIn !!!
palebride
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Well, I'll be 30 in a few months and just the other day someone at school asked me if I was a teacher or a student.... I think some people think I got married very young when they dont' know me.... Luckily - I rarely get commens about it though
BMD'sPeanut
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I can't believe this is actually an issue. Or that it bothers anyone...
I do this to people and never meant any harm in it. Never thought I was being rude.
june262004
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Posted by shorty the pumpkin
aHEM, it's KristIn !!!
lolita4life
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sorry kristIn!!!!!
of course it bothers people! i dont know exactly what you say to people but the way people ask me they act as if i SHOULDN'T be married! thats offensive! not to mention i dont like people asking my age!
palebride
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I don't mind people asking my age....but I do mind people assuming they know my age and then judging me based on that assumption
nvrdull
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I get it ALL the time, but the funny part is I am ALOT older than I look so for me it is great!!! I still get ID'd My 21st birthday was 11 years ago....The best thing to do is just ignore them all....
june262004
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Its not so much that its rude that they ask its more how they ask.
Shorty McBride
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Posted by june262004
Its not so much that its rude that they ask its more how they ask.
EXACTLY.
and it doesn't help that I don't have a ring, 'cause no one believes me at all. I'm 22, but look very young for my age.
Crismicka
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It is rude, but as you get older, you'll appreciate it...
june262004
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Posted by Crismicka
It is rude, but as you get older, you'll appreciate it...
LOL That is true. I said that earlier in the post. When Im 40 ill love it.
lolita4life
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Its not so much that its rude that they ask its more how they ask.
thats what it is.... anyways....
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I get it too, I am 23 and I look younger (even my students have asked if I get a ride to school because they didnt think i could drive?????they are middle schoolers and they arent obviously too on top of things, it's kind of sad)
anyway, I dont like it when people make the comment about...YOUR FIANCE??? How OLD are you?? Obviously, old enough to be getting married.... but then I think that one day I will like it, but sometimes i wish that i could answer their rude question with a rude response
lolita4life
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me too! like 'YES my husband , and my age is none of your business' or when they ask my age i feel like asking, 'why?'
