My FH's aunt offered to cook food for our RD since we were forced to have it our house (long story). He agreed to it, but then told his mom to make sure she was told just because she was cooking does not mean she can attend because it was for the Bridal Party only. I told him I thought that was REALLY rude of him to say that ...ESPECIALLY because she:
1) will be cooking for OUR guests 2) is family
Ok she's not in the Bridal party but neither are the significant others who are attending, nor my uncle or cousin who will be in our apartment that night because they are staying w/us. Should I tell them to leave while this is going on? He got upset ..but I mean seriously how RUDE was that?
**UPDATE*** - just for the record..FH is NORMALLY the sweetest person on earth. HOWEVER..I think he became 'GROOMZILLA' since we have had ALOT and I mean ALOT of headaches w/this wedding. He was good up until a few days ago...one slip up is allowed..but only ONE!
ncd623
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Way rude, both sets of parents & grandparents were at ours, I wanted them there
Trishthedish
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No offense, but that is really, really rude. If I were her and I was told that, I would not even think of cooking for the RD anymore.
Sorry, I don't mean to be so blunt but that sounds selfish.
DanNette
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Everyone should stay. Technically out of town guests are supposed to be welcomed to the RD too. That is really really really sweet of your Aunt to cook, she would really appreciate the invite, although she is probably not looking for it! FH wasn't nice to say that.
Tria1110
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yeah - that was pretty bad.
Mitabtrfly
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Posted by Trishthedish
No offense, but that is really, really rude. If I were her and I was told that, I would not even think of cooking for the RD anymore.
Sorry, I don't mean to be so blunt but that sounds selfish.
No offense taken..
She's still going to cook and he is still going to apologize BIG TIME!
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If I'm not mistaken aren't the parents included in the RD. I also thought it was the Groom's parents who pay for it? Please correct me if I'm wrong.
Mitabtrfly
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If I'm not mistaken aren't the parents included in the RD. I also thought it was the Groom's parents who pay for it? Please correct me if I'm wrong.
No you are absolutely right!! They are coming..but they ain't paying
dancinmyazoff
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You rock you're getting married on my BDAY!!!!! Friday the 13th awesome!
Mitabtrfly
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Posted by dancinmyazoff
You rock you're getting married on my BDAY!!!!! Friday the 13th awesome!
it's a great day!!!!! Let me be the first to say 'Happy early birthday'
