It is SO good that I work from home

Original post by HSsweethearts

May 25, 2011 02:18 PM

because I just had a MAJOR meltdown.

Observe the convo between me and FH's FIRST COUSIN

Hi Jodi,

I hope all is well with you and your family. Did you get our wedding invitation? If so, could you please send back the response as soon as possible? We need to get final counts to our caterer, florist, etc. Hope you can make it. Thanks!
Love, Jenn

Jodi
Thank you for the invite. We will not be able to attend.
Congrats
Jodi

Jennifer
Please send the card back. Thanks

Jodi
Don't have it. Sorry.

Jennifer
So you just threw the invitation out without ever planning to respond?

Jodi
Congrats Jenn
Don't focus on this

WHAT!?!?!?

HSsweethearts Posted: May 25, 2011 02:39 PM

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Posted by fdnybride163

Posted by AugustFeather

WOW...

'Don't focus on this??' W-T-F! what a crappy *** response

AGREE!!wow I can totally picture her texting this and rolling her eyes, cause she knew she was wrong..

Im assuming they are not sending a gift either

I GUARANTEE they are not sending a gift.

Angel120905 Posted: May 25, 2011 02:39 PM

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wow I'm sorry you have to go through this!

jilliebean84 Posted: May 25, 2011 02:41 PM

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is she married? if not, be sure to return the favor when the time comes

HSsweethearts Posted: May 25, 2011 02:42 PM

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First FH was telling me to let it go and stop frekaing out. I've been crying like, daily over his family's lack of support. We argue over it since I flip out and he wants to let it go since he sees it as 'not constructive' to flip out.

But then I was seriously having a meltdown like crying, yelling. I felt like I was going to vomit. Just from ALL the stress. The apartment is a box jungle, no plans to move my stuff over, no RD yet. AHHH...

Once I started really losing it, he was being nicer.

snowflakes11 Posted: May 25, 2011 02:43 PM

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.............. CRICKETS.................

Im totally speechless and VERY sorry you have to go through that!

oh my

HSsweethearts Posted: May 25, 2011 02:43 PM

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Posted by jilliebean84

is she married? if not, be sure to return the favor when the time comes

She's long married, the old hag, and FH and his family did go to FL for her wedding.

I think her daughter's bat mitzvah is coming up. IF we're invited, that kid's getting NOTHING

Jmrosa1 Posted: May 25, 2011 03:10 PM

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Wow incredible!!!!!!!!!

Dont focus on this??!!!! Who even says that?!

cait625 Posted: May 25, 2011 03:53 PM

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don't let her bring you down.

anyone who would say 'down focus on this' is crazy.

you don't want her there anyway!

HSsweethearts Posted: May 25, 2011 03:59 PM

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Oh, I should add that this was over facebook messages and not over text, so she could have easily written more than such curt responses

Yankeeelove Posted: May 25, 2011 04:13 PM

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Wow I wouldn't do anything nice for her ever again!! Could she be jealous of you do you think? I know jealousy makes people do mean things

Moonmist09 Posted: May 25, 2011 04:15 PM

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wow. there are no words. there really aren't.
however, there were about 10 rsvp cards we never got back and half of those were yes rsvp's.
instead of stalking people for them once i got their answers, i just created my own rsvp for them to make it easier to do my seating chart. don't stress over the little stuff. not worth it

pjc92980 Posted: May 25, 2011 04:38 PM

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O M G
is she serious!?!?!?!
how old is she
does she have common sense?!?!?!

WOW
there are just no words

IrishAli Posted: May 25, 2011 04:45 PM

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What a B ITCH

VCanizalez Posted: May 25, 2011 04:49 PM

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WoW!
What a Bitccccccchhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW!
No Words!!!

OMg

evita2781 Posted: May 25, 2011 04:50 PM

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holy crap w t f was that????

HSsweethearts Posted: May 25, 2011 05:03 PM

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Posted by pjc92980

O M G
is she serious!?!?!?!
how old is she
does she have common sense?!?!?!

WOW
there are just no words

She's in her 40's. In other words- old enough to know better

HSsweethearts Posted: May 26, 2011 09:50 AM

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It turns out the Ohio family had the wrong wedding

and they NEVER got our invitation.

I'm SO MAD at FMIL. When I found out my cousin didn't get her invite (TWICE) I asked FMIL to call the people who had not responded and she kept just not calling the people she assumed weren't coming, but I said they still have to respond!!! She didn't bother calling them. Now I wonder who else didn't get the invitations

BlushandBashful Posted: May 26, 2011 09:55 AM

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Posted by HSsweethearts

It turns out the Ohio family had the wrong wedding

and they NEVER got our invitation.

I'm SO MAD at FMIL. When I found out my cousin didn't get her invite (TWICE) I asked FMIL to call the people who had not responded and she kept just not calling the people she assumed weren't coming, but I said they still have to respond!!! She didn't bother calling them. Now I wonder who else didn't get the invitations

OMG. I'm so sorry.

HSsweethearts Posted: May 26, 2011 10:16 AM

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Oh AND I decided what to do IF (and that's a big IF) we get invited to anything for the cousin's kids.

I'm going to take the RSVP card, fill it out, PUT IT THROUGH THE SHREDDER, and mail bad the shreds.