it's about that time...

ohhhhhhhh pleaseee

lol, thanks goldie

::clearing my throat:: lol

ya know I love you!

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Posted by Alyssa79

yea some old farts really deserve it. maybe the newbies were never explained what it really meant??

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totally agree

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Posted by Alyssa79

yea some old farts really deserve it. maybe the newbies were never explained what it really meant??

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Originally I thought BOTW was supposed to be a Bride who had more than 1,000 posts. I am sorry some of you are kind of disappointed at the choice of the recent BOTW i make sure I keep this concern in mind when making my decision next week!!!!

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Posted by T E R I

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Posted by Alyssa79

yea some old farts really deserve it. maybe the newbies were never explained what it really meant??

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totally agree

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I've been thinking this for the last couple of weeks... thanks to Goldie I can express it.

There are some people who got missed... when we had a lot of new 2010 brides. (Amanda and barbntony spring to my mind most immediately).

Everyone deserves a chance, and we should have some sort of system in place to make sure the more 'senior' (as in, been here a long time... not old!) members of 2010 weddings get their turn at BOTW.

I'm just not sure how to go about making it fair for the newer folks as well as those who aren't quite so new.

Any ideas?

They are being silly sweetie. Don't take offense. I'm sure you are going to totally kick a@@ as bride of the week. And don't let them bully you into a choice lol. Choose who you want. No worries. Have fun with it!

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Posted by grrulz

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Posted by Alyssa79

yea some old farts really deserve it. maybe the newbies were never explained what it really meant??

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Originally I thought BOTW was supposed to be a Bride who had more than 1,000 posts. I am sorry some of you are kind of disappointed at the choice of the recent BOTW i make sure I keep this concern in mind when making my decision next week!!!!

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No one's disappointed! I just want to make sure everyone gets a chance, that's all!

Everyone deserves a turn!

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by T E R I

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Posted by Alyssa79

yea some old farts really deserve it. maybe the newbies were never explained what it really meant??

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totally agree

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I've been thinking this for the last couple of weeks... thanks to Goldie I can express it.

There are some people who got missed... when we had a lot of new 2010 brides. (Amanda and barbntony spring to my mind most immediately).

Everyone deserves a chance, and we should have some sort of system in place to make sure the more 'senior' (as in, been here a long time... not old!) members of 2010 weddings get their turn at BOTW.

I'm just not sure how to go about making it fair for the newer folks as well as those who aren't quite so new.

Any ideas?

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I'm glad you explained the whole 'senior' statement. I know Barbara and I are one of the older ones on the board lol. I really haven't taken offense to not being chosen. It's all in good fun. It will get around to everyone eventually I'm sure.

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Posted by amandah75


I'm glad you explained the whole 'senior' statement. I know Barbara and I are one of the older ones on the board lol. I really haven't taken offense to not being chosen. It's all in good fun. It will get around to everyone eventually I'm sure.

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I'll be 34 in November, so I skew on the older side myself....

I'm sure it will cycle back... I just don't want anyone to 'slip through the cracks' I know a lot of the women here have some really good questions, and since we have so much time I'd like to hear them all!

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by amandah75


I'm glad you explained the whole 'senior' statement. I know Barbara and I are one of the older ones on the board lol. I really haven't taken offense to not being chosen. It's all in good fun. It will get around to everyone eventually I'm sure.

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I'll be 34 in November, so I skew on the older side myself....

I'm sure it will cycle back... I just don't want anyone to 'slip through the cracks' I know a lot of the women here have some really good questions, and since we have so much time I'd like to hear them all!

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No, I know what you were all saying. Just felt bad for grrulz (sorry I don't know your name). Don't want anyone to think it was a personal attack on them. Vanessa just can't help but once again show her love and devotion to me on the boards BOTW or not, still going to post my dorky questions lol Especially since work is so slow and I need to make the day go fast!!!!!!

And yeah for us being 35 when we get married! FH finds great joy in making fun of me for this since his birthday isn't until July. Told him I'm still 12 at heart (12 with a VERY dirty mouth) and that he'll always be oder than me

Aww Gloria, i'm definitely not disappoited that you're BOTW! I <3 you! Amanda is right though, I joke a lot and a lot of us have a lot of inside jokes since we've been on the board for a while. For example:

It's been said that Amanda and I have a tree with our names carved in it somewhere in Long Island.

Hallslady and Alyssa are lipstick lovers

Everyone is a hooker b!tch in the eyes of Grkbarbie.

Laura (futuremrsf) wants to hire KC & JoJo for my wedding...meanwhile, Hallslady and I have a pact to crash her reception with the electric side

Joann says she's embarrassed by us but really she loves us unconditionally

Gaby (rocketsummer) loves me more and more everyday

what else am I forgetting?

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Posted by Goldie39

Aww Gloria, i'm definitely not disappoited that you're BOTW! I <3 you! Amanda is right though, I joke a lot and a lot of us have a lot of inside jokes since we've been on the board for a while. For example:

It's been said that Amanda and I have a tree with our names carved in it somewhere in Long Island.

Hallslady and Alyssa are lipstick lovers

Everyone is a hooker b!tch in the eyes of Grkbarbie.

Laura (futuremrsf) wants to hire KC & JoJo for my wedding...meanwhile, Hallslady and I have a pact to crash her reception with the electric side

Joann says she's embarrassed by us but really she loves us unconditionally

Gaby (rocketsummer) loves me more and more everyday

what else am I forgetting?

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I understand that other ladies need the chance too Goldie!!! :) I am happy i am BOTW though can't deny that but i will keep in mind 'the seniors' when I am making my decision!!!! I think we all have bonded. This website has made me meet nice and lovely ladies! :)