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TnJ041809 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 07:48 PM

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I'm so very sorry to hear this. Maybe if you both spends some time apart and get to thinking clearly when everyone isn't so upset things will change. Maybe things just got to stressful but this is what a relationship is about getting through it together. But I wish whatever is better for you. Be well and take care of yourself.

Ann 52409 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 08:25 PM

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Marissaaaaaa, i'm soooooo sorry to read this. I kept thinking you were going to say a joke at the end. i think maybe you guys need some time tto talk things out and hopefully everything will work itself out.
We will miss you please come back and wirite with us once in a while if you can

2009wedding Posted: Sep 26, 2007 08:52 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this and that you are going threw this. If you need anything please feel free to FM me or get me on myspace. I wish you the best of luck.

NYMetsBride Posted: Sep 26, 2007 09:44 PM

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Marissa! I cant believe what I just read either. I am soooooooooooooooo sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really really hope you guys can work it out. I feel so bad and I really dont know what to say. I have you as a Myspace friend so Ill be contacting you soon.

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 09:47 PM

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I seriously thought you were kidding...what happened? I'm sending lots of hugs your way and if it's meant to be it will be....if not know what is best for you and your future! Stay in touch please you were hysterical.

kogan09 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 09:54 PM

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OMG!!! I am sooo sorry. I hope that you both cool off and maybe then things will work. Take care of yourself no matter what. Again, very sorry that this happened.

FutureMrsPD Posted: Sep 26, 2007 10:21 PM

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i am soo sorry! What exactly happened? I must have missed something along the way?!

Tori9299 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 10:30 PM

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OMG please give it sometime, things can work out.

ilovedave1119 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 10:36 PM

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Marissa, i'm so sorry about all of this! I agree w/ the other girls maybe you two just need time to cool off. We have all had our share of fights and breaking points but sometimes you just need some healing time. I really hope everything works out for the best, whether it's with or without jordan. Please let me know if you need anything!!!

kabo0831 Posted: Sep 26, 2007 10:37 PM

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omg i cant believe it. Im so sorry rissa. If you need anything or just want to talk just im me [email protected]

Jayla127 Posted: Sep 27, 2007 12:22 AM

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I feel like all the other girls on the board. I thought you were playing around. Marissa please say it isn't so. Your planning is so underway. I don't like hearing this and you bring so craziness to the boards. You don't know how many times I've gotten pissed off about something and you will answer my post and crack me up. I hope things work out for you and that you stay on.

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Sep 27, 2007 04:39 AM

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I really hope that things work out for the best. I am so sorry to hear this! It's heartbreaking!

mdawg Posted: Sep 27, 2007 07:18 AM

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thank you so much for all of your well wishes... but truthfully, even if he wanted to try again... I don't.

one of my best friends came to my house yesterday... and then my mom flew up from florida!

we're going to actually sell the house and im going to get an apartment. it's truly better off this way... like i told you at the G2G... he wasnt showing any effort to make life any easier for me, and is that really what I want to live with for the rest of my life? Someone who isn't doing anything for me, yet I'm giving the world to them? Definitely not.

I've also decided that I'm not gonna cancel my LIW account... So what if I'm not getting married anymore... I still want to talk to everyone and try and help you guys with your planning. I was definitely less upset (in fact, not upset at all) when I signed on here. So Imma stayin!

:) love all of you for all of your comments and things... .you are all so supportive.

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Sep 27, 2007 07:21 AM

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We love you marissa ... Stay strong Girl!!!!!! BTW I am so happy you decided to stay

Ann 52409 Posted: Sep 27, 2007 07:24 AM

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I'm soo happy you are staying, we would have really missed you.
I'm glad that you figured things out and you know what is best for you and your situation.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Sep 27, 2007 08:47 AM

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I feel like planning a wedding causes sooo much undue stress. There's no reason to fight over favors, DJs, flowers, etc...Maybe you just need a break from the wedding stuff and remember WHY you're marrying each other to begin with. Every relationship is up and down, but a wedding can't and shouldn't fundamentally change why you love each other. If its meant to be, its meant to be. I hope everything works out for the best.

xoxoxoxo

FinallyEngaged Posted: Sep 27, 2007 09:18 AM

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Marissa! when I initially read the post i had to read it 2 or 3 times for it to really sink in!! I wish you all the best in the world and it is so great that you are staying positive!!! If you need anything, as you can clearly see we are all here to help you.... feel free to FM me whenever you want...

I am glad to hear that you are not leaving us!!!!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Sep 27, 2007 09:28 AM

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we love you very much marissa..and I am glad you are stickin around...this is a really hard decision to make and I am so proud of you for being so strong...you are truly one amazing woman. You deserve the best and if he wasnt providing that for you than you made the right choice...stay positive darlin!

Cacarina Posted: Sep 27, 2007 09:30 AM

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Posted by mdawg

thank you so much for all of your well wishes... but truthfully, even if he wanted to try again... I don't.

one of my best friends came to my house yesterday... and then my mom flew up from florida!

we're going to actually sell the house and im going to get an apartment. it's truly better off this way... like i told you at the G2G... he wasnt showing any effort to make life any easier for me, and is that really what I want to live with for the rest of my life? Someone who isn't doing anything for me, yet I'm giving the world to them? Definitely not.

I've also decided that I'm not gonna cancel my LIW account... So what if I'm not getting married anymore... I still want to talk to everyone and try and help you guys with your planning. I was definitely less upset (in fact, not upset at all) when I signed on here. So Imma stayin!

:) love all of you for all of your comments and things... .you are all so supportive.

I am glad you are staying. Not only can you help us girls with the planning, but we can help you when you are having a bad day. It's nice to have people you can come to for advice when it seems like things can't get any worse!