It's Monday Morning and I have a story of my own -- Long but good
Hello all:
Boosh and I attended a wedding this weekend for my cousin who I am very close with. The affair was held at Villa Lombardi's, which was a great hall and the food was excellent.
Anyway, check this out. I've never seen this before in my life. If I was my cousin, I'd be furious.
A little background: Her MOH was her best friend. The girl is married with a 1 year old daughter. She is married for about two years and was with her husband for 5 years before that. He makes a killing at his job, they have a beautiful home and because of his salary, she doesn't have to work. The problem is that his salary comes at a price. He is constantly travelling, so they never see each other, and she's at home all day with the baby and basically raises the child alone. On top of this, one of her friend's brother's is a recovering drug addict and has been spending alot of time with her. For whatever reason, he can't work.
So, the night before the affair, the MOH gets in a big fight with her husband in which she tells him she doesn't love him AND has feelings for this other guy (the recovering addict), AND that the marriage is over. She says these things in haste and then gets really upset because she feels she overreacted.
So, now we get to the wedding day. The MOH shows up at my cousin's at 5 a.m. (Hair appointment was at 6). She was wearing nothing but a bathrobe and slippers and starts crying to my cousin about the incident. Another bridesmaid, a mutual friend of my cousin's and MOH, tells MOH that while she understands her pain, that it is my cousin's day and that she needs to put it aside for the day, and that if she can't walk down the aisle and be happy for one day, she needs to let them know now. MOH says she will be fine.
They get to the hall, and my cousin and DH saw each other before the ceremony for pics. When they see each other for the first time, it's obviously a very happy moment. Seeing 2 people in love is too much for MOH and she runs to the bridal suite crying hysterically. the other bridesmaid goes after and repeats what she told her earlier and that if she can't go through with it, she better speak now. MOH says she will be fine.
So, now we get to the ceremony and they do the candle lighting ceremony with a nice love song in the background (forget the name). The maid of honor is trying to hold in her pain and starts shaking. Finally, we see her burst out crying hysterically in front of everyone, ruining the moment she runs up the aisle and into the bridal suite.
What do you all think. My cousin was not mad, she felt sorry that her MOH is going through this. Boosh and I would have been furious. Not only did she pick a REALLY bad time to do this, she took away from their moment. Hopefully, this can be edited out of the video without having to take the whole candle lighting out. If it were me, I would have told her to not even bother staying for the reception.
But, that's just me![]()
Boosh and I attended a wedding this weekend for my cousin who I am very close with. The affair was held at Villa Lombardi's, which was a great hall and the food was excellent.
Anyway, check this out. I've never seen this before in my life. If I was my cousin, I'd be furious.
A little background: Her MOH was her best friend. The girl is married with a 1 year old daughter. She is married for about two years and was with her husband for 5 years before that. He makes a killing at his job, they have a beautiful home and because of his salary, she doesn't have to work. The problem is that his salary comes at a price. He is constantly travelling, so they never see each other, and she's at home all day with the baby and basically raises the child alone. On top of this, one of her friend's brother's is a recovering drug addict and has been spending alot of time with her. For whatever reason, he can't work.
So, the night before the affair, the MOH gets in a big fight with her husband in which she tells him she doesn't love him AND has feelings for this other guy (the recovering addict), AND that the marriage is over. She says these things in haste and then gets really upset because she feels she overreacted.
So, now we get to the wedding day. The MOH shows up at my cousin's at 5 a.m. (Hair appointment was at 6). She was wearing nothing but a bathrobe and slippers and starts crying to my cousin about the incident. Another bridesmaid, a mutual friend of my cousin's and MOH, tells MOH that while she understands her pain, that it is my cousin's day and that she needs to put it aside for the day, and that if she can't walk down the aisle and be happy for one day, she needs to let them know now. MOH says she will be fine.
They get to the hall, and my cousin and DH saw each other before the ceremony for pics. When they see each other for the first time, it's obviously a very happy moment. Seeing 2 people in love is too much for MOH and she runs to the bridal suite crying hysterically. the other bridesmaid goes after and repeats what she told her earlier and that if she can't go through with it, she better speak now. MOH says she will be fine.
So, now we get to the ceremony and they do the candle lighting ceremony with a nice love song in the background (forget the name). The maid of honor is trying to hold in her pain and starts shaking. Finally, we see her burst out crying hysterically in front of everyone, ruining the moment she runs up the aisle and into the bridal suite.
What do you all think. My cousin was not mad, she felt sorry that her MOH is going through this. Boosh and I would have been furious. Not only did she pick a REALLY bad time to do this, she took away from their moment. Hopefully, this can be edited out of the video without having to take the whole candle lighting out. If it were me, I would have told her to not even bother staying for the reception.
But, that's just me
