We cannot afford a house. dh and I went to a loan officer today and got the bad news. Fun part is, it's my MIL's fault.
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Don't get discouraged. The prices are still coming down. In the mean time just keep saving. The more you have to put down the less you need to borrow. I know you will get something. Don't let ANYONE stand in your way. Good luck!!
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Join the club I think a bank would laugh at us if we even tried to get a loan
fdny3113
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Soooo sorry!!!!!
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I'm selling or Renting a Large 1 Br House, Full Bath, EIK, 1/4 Fenced Acre and LOVE LOVE LOVE Dog People. It's in the Mastic Shirley area, but is in an adorable bayside community and only 12 miles from Holbrook. Not so bad....if you're interested FM me. As the owner, I'm even considering holding the mortgage for new owners since the loan industry has such tough standards right now.
Thank you, but it's too far for us for a commute to work.
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ohhh I'm so sorry! Maybe consider going for a coop? We had to change gears from a house to a coop, because with the price of oil, there was no way we could afford a mortgage, li taxes, heat the house & still eat
I can't live in a coop. Thanks though.
My bro is selling his co-op in Islip. It's at like $130K or something.
How could it be you MIL's fault?
Everything happens for a reason - maybe something better will come along in a couple of years.
She basically forced dh to take out a mortgage in his name on her home and it is screwing us over big time.
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I'm sorry...i hope you can work something out.
I do know how you feel though!
alissa5517
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Im so sorry...Is there anyway to wait a little while and try again.
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Im so sorry...Is there anyway to wait a little while and try again.
We have to wait about a year because of how much more we need to save. It's going to be hard since I really hate living with my MIL.
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Im so sorry. Maybe you can rent for a year and try again. I know its so hard now to get a loan. The banks are raising their standards now because of all the issues with the market. Hopefully it will improve soon.
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Im so sorry. Maybe you can rent for a year and try again. I know its so hard now to get a loan. The banks are raising their standards now because of all the issues with the market. Hopefully it will improve soon.
We're living with my MIL so we don't have to waste money renting. Thanks though.
It's going to be touch since I really can't stand her.
LCnAC
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well you could sell the house and make her find a new place to live but doubt DH will like that idea! Im so glad my MIL lives in Florida!!
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i am sorry hunny
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Im so sorry. Maybe you can rent for a year and try again. I know its so hard now to get a loan. The banks are raising their standards now because of all the issues with the market. Hopefully it will improve soon.
We're living with my MIL so we don't have to waste money renting. Thanks though.
It's going to be touch since I really can't stand her.
It will be tough but, try not to let it come between you & DH. I've learned that with everyone on FH's side of the family.....I have to bite my tounge!! It's a good thing you have LIW. Vent here.
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maybe you can have your mil take out a new loan to pay off the existing loan your dh has since she made his take it out
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well you could sell the house and make her find a new place to live but doubt DH will like that idea! Im so glad my MIL lives in Florida!!