It's official I'am......

DEPRESSED!
So I am having a really tuff couple of days. My MOH(twin sister) and one of my BM(friend of 12yrs) have been fighting really really bad with each other, saying really mean and crule things to one another [again, they've been friends for over 12yrs].
They both have been telling me that it's not going to effect my wedding but I really don't see how it couldn't! My BM texted me today saying that 'we need to talk after work!' Honestly I really don't even want to talk to her b/c of the sh*t that's been going on & I am also affraid that she's going to tell me that she can't be apart of my wedding b/c of all this.
Then, on top of this one of my older sisters also a BM leaves me a message saying unfortuatly she will not be able to be apart of my wedding b/c of financial reasons. '***' I feel like crawling into a hole right now. I don't know what to think right now my head is spinning, I'am about to kick everybody out of my wedding or just ran a way and get married LOL

Thanks for letting me vent!

I'm sorry you're going through this.

awwww honestly if you guys have been friends for so long...these things happen with girls. At least in my group of friends.

Im sure it will all work itself out.

Im so sorry!

awwwww......
i am sooooo sorry you are in the middle of this!!!!!

you want me to kick all their a$$es????????
cuz i will do it
i may be small but i do tae-bo!!!!!!


i hope this made you smile

Aww I am so sorry! I can really relate to what you're feeling right now. My MOH (best friend) and BM (FSIL) are a lot alike and are therefore having mega issues. I am trying not to think about it at all b/c it makes me have an anxiety attack every time! Both girls have been pretty good about keeping me out of things. I did change my bach party plans though, b/c I don't want them around each other so now I am doing 1 thing w/ MOH & BM (both best friends of mine) and another thing with 2 BMs (both FSILs). Whatever will keep me less anxious is what I am going for LOL!

Your MOH and BM really need to leave you out of everything!!! It's not doing you any good to know what is going on and it's not fair to you! I told my girls that even after my wedding is over, I don't want to know a thing! Feel free to FM me if you wanna talk more.

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Posted by RisiLeigh

Aww I am so sorry! I can really relate to what you're feeling right now. My MOH (best friend) and BM (FSIL) are a lot alike and are therefore having mega issues. I am trying not to think about it at all b/c it makes me have an anxiety attack every time! Both girls have been pretty good about keeping me out of things. I did change my bach party plans though, b/c I don't want them around each other so now I am doing 1 thing w/ MOH & BM (both best friends of mine) and another thing with 2 BMs (both FSILs). Whatever will keep me less anxious is what I am going for LOL!

Your MOH and BM really need to leave you out of everything!!! It's not doing you any good to know what is going on and it's not fair to you! I told my girls that even after my wedding is over, I don't want to know a thing! Feel free to FM me if you wanna talk more.

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Totally agree!! You shouldn't know these things!!! Tell them to keep it to themselves.. it's not fair to you!!

Aww, Jac Im sorry. I can't beleive they are still fighting with each other! If you want to grab a drink one nite and vent let me know.

Oh, honey, you poor thing. Praying these girls resolve their differences, forgive each other, and be supportive of you!! Mary MOB

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Posted by Jacquelyn

Aw it did thanks!

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glad to help

Aww I'm sorry that your going through all this. I'm sure you will pull through it and everything will be fine.

I'm so sorry... Things like this usually have their way of working things out.