It's okay to be nervous hon!

maybride2004 Posted: Dec 29, 2003 08:18 PM

It's okay to be nervous hon!

Hi! I'm getting married in about almost 4 months! It will be 4 months in about 2 weeks.
It's definitley NORMAL to be getting nervous.
Don't worry you will be fine. It's a very big step.

Maybride2004

aliciahelene Posted: Dec 30, 2003 09:49 AM

Re: It's okay to be nervous hon!

Its definately normal to get nervous, its even normal to second guess things, people always say if you arent 100% sure, then dont do it..and thats bull ****..its normal to be nervous, its a lifelong commitment.. When i had my freak out>.I sought out teh help of marriage counselors at my school, ( im a family therapy student) and so many of them said that it is normal to be 80 % sure, any more than that and you arent in reality, I dont necessarily agree with that, because I find myself more around 95 %, but my point is it is very necessary to exhibit certain freak out emotions!!!! Especially if you ahve been hurt in te past or have issues with marriage to begin with...so to whoever is nervous, hang in there...it is all extremely normal!!!