It's Over

i am so sorry you have to go through this. we are all here for you if you need to vent or cry. let it all out. eerything happens for a reason and i beleive people walk in and out of our lives for a reason. sometimes when they walk out its so hurtful. but one day you will understand why this may have happened and it will only make you a stronger person. i am here for you if you want yell scream talk cry i am a fm away.

I'm so sorry. Just know that everything happens for a reason. Maybe this is for the best. I wish you all the luck in the world and will pray for a better tomorrow for you.

I'm so sorry! Hang in there

i'm so sorry christine!!!

i'm really sorry sweetie

Oh, i'm so, so sorry. That's awful. Just terrible.

The only thing I can say is that maybe it's better this way--it's better to call off the wedding than get divorced shortly afterwards. And a man who would secretly go to therapy for months, then suddenly break off all ties and refuse couples counseling...you're better off not marrying him right now. Maybe he'll grow up in future.

It may not feel like it now, but this isn't the end of your life, it's the beginning. You will be happy again. It will take time, though. Allow yourself to grieve--not just for the relationship that's over, but for the life you thought you were going to have. It's OK to grieve, even though you're angry at your ex. But you will feel better someday, and you have to allow yourself to do that, too. Someday, maybe not that far off, you'll start to feel normal and happy again. And someday you'll fall in love again, to someone who will cherish you like you deserve.

I am so sorry to hear this
I hope everythign works out for you. I wish I had soem good words of wisdom but all I cans ay is at least he didn't go through with th wedding than insist on divorce. This goes th show how communication is everything. I am so sorry.

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Posted by Pencils

Oh, i'm so, so sorry. That's awful. Just terrible.

The only thing I can say is that maybe it's better this way--it's better to call off the wedding than get divorced shortly afterwards. And a man who would secretly go to therapy for months, then suddenly break off all ties and refuse couples counseling...you're better off not marrying him right now. Maybe he'll grow up in future.

It may not feel like it now, but this isn't the end of your life, it's the beginning. You will be happy again. It will take time, though. Allow yourself to grieve--not just for the relationship that's over, but for the life you thought you were going to have. It's OK to grieve, even though you're angry at your ex. But you will feel better someday, and you have to allow yourself to do that, too. Someday, maybe not that far off, you'll start to feel normal and happy again. And someday you'll fall in love again, to someone who will cherish you like you deserve.

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Thank you for this. It really spoke to me.

Thank you to all of you wonderful women. You are all sweet, creative and beautiful people. Thank you for the kind words and blessing. Hopefully my prince will come someday but in the mean time I have enough work to do on myself.

I don't think I will be visiting on here much anymore. I will try to stay and at least lurk to see everyone's beautiful pictures but right now the feelings are too raw.

I will be thinking about each of you with each passing weekend (and Thursday)

Christine,

I'm so sorry to read your news. It's a difficult thing to go thru. i went thru the same thing with my first engagement.
Sending you tons of hugs.


Susi

I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. There will be brighter days ahead and you will find happiness with the man you are truly meant to be with. Stay strong and lean on your friends, family, and the LIW girls if you need anything.....You are NOT alone

I'm so, so sorry to hear that and I hope you know there are lots of people who care about you who you can lean on at what must be a confusing and unbelievably sad time for you.

oh sweetheart, I know its all been said but I am so sorry you are dealing with this.. I pray that you find the strength to heal quickly... I know it sounds cheesy but eveything happens for a reason and maybe this is just meant to be. You deserve everything beautiful in this world, remember that.

all my best to you <33333

I am sorry for this terrible and shocking change in your plans. You deserve much better than someone who is uncommunicative and hides something as major as therapy from you. I really wish you peace of mind. Lean on your family and friends--they love you and will take care of you.

I am so sorry

i am very sorry

I'm so sorry!!