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mcbride62009 Posted: May 07, 2008 11:45 AM

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I am so sorry! Give him some time. Maybe things are just going too quick. Let me know if you need anything

Soon2BMrs.T Posted: May 07, 2008 12:11 PM

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OMGOODDDDNEESSSS!!!!!! I am so so so sorry for what has happen. Now you know what type of person he is and he was not man enough to tell you in person. Look at it this way, atleast you know now then later. You are going to have your down moments and know that you deserve better and keep your head up there will be a brighter day.

lilpiggy742 Posted: May 07, 2008 12:12 PM

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i'm so sorry to hear this we're all here for you if you ever need to talk

shell1879 Posted: May 07, 2008 12:56 PM

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omg i'm so sorry

he may just be highly stressed i did the same thing to my FH a few months ago yeah it was bad.... but give it a few days hopefully he realizes he doesn't want to loose you

Nelle5757 Posted: May 07, 2008 01:44 PM

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Sorry. Keep your head up.

galgirl Posted: May 07, 2008 01:49 PM

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NYMetsBride Posted: May 07, 2008 01:49 PM

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wow sorry to hear about this! hope your doing okay and I send many hugs!

Fall BZ 2009 Posted: May 07, 2008 02:00 PM

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So sorry to hear that..keep your head up high!

Best of Luck

coley1027 Posted: May 07, 2008 02:11 PM

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ladies honestly thank you so much for all the support, kind words, and fms. i never realized how much i needed to hear some of those things.

yes i am glad that this is happening now, rather then right before the wedding, or down the road after the wedding.

i have yet to speak to him since the whole incident yesterday, but if i hear nothing from him tonight i plan on giving him a call tomorrow just to settle things and make sure we are on the same page. then start the process of canceling vendors and everything. i will keep you ladies updated as best as i can.. and really thank you for everything, you are all amazing women

<33 nicole

WinterGrl09 Posted: May 07, 2008 02:58 PM

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I'm sorry, I hope your okay. Everything happens for a reason and since you haven't spoken to him yet maybe there are a few things you have to talk to him about. I hope things work out between the two of you.

PrincessBride09 Posted: May 07, 2008 03:52 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this. Honestly, to do something like that through a text message is just wrong. I hope everything works out for you in the end.

lanamanitta Posted: May 07, 2008 04:46 PM

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Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that!!! Maybe he'll 'wake up,' or maybe he won't -- you will be fine and it will work out for the best. If he's not ready, than he's not ready, and if he is, he will realize it. Love sometimes does not conquer all, unfortunately, but a strong independent woman who knows her worth and what she is capable of can!!!!!

RobNCyn Posted: May 07, 2008 05:19 PM

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Omg . . . I'm so sorry Nicole!

I hope you can get in touch with him b/c it def sounds like something happened to him and he is having insecurities right now.

I wish you lots of luck!! And remember we are always here for you!!

BarbieGrl10 Posted: May 07, 2008 05:25 PM

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Nicole.. I'm so sorry to hear this! Keep your head high! I wish you the best of luck!

09bride Posted: May 07, 2008 06:04 PM

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This cant end like this. Keep calling until he tells you face to face, i really think he is just going through som tough times now, or he got cold feet. Its not over, someone would never cancel a such important event by text. Confront him, before u do anything. Keep us posted! Good luck girl !!

Sandreala328 Posted: May 07, 2008 06:26 PM

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Oh my gosh, sweetie.. I saw this in passing and I had to stop and take a minute to tell you how sorry I am. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but maybe this is a blessing in disguise. I think as painful as it is now, it would be even more painful down the road if he up and left (especially if there were children involved.) I hope he comes around and it's just cold feet. Please know that if you need to talk, I'm here to listen.

Love,
Sara

hogie2be Posted: May 07, 2008 07:55 PM

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Take lots of time to work this through- don't cancel anything. Has he had this kind of an issue before? We are here! And keep us updated

JKFris09 Posted: May 07, 2008 08:00 PM

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I hope things work out for you for the best, even it means it's not meant to be. Give him a little space and then sit down to talk, he should at least explain himself to you, you deserve that much.

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: May 07, 2008 08:02 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear this..what a screwed up way to tell you this..I know this is probably what you don't want to hear..but you deserve better..stay strong..we are here if you need to talk..i hope everything works out