Its over

When one door closes there is always another one that opens.
Be strong

you did the right thing. best of luck to you!

You will be okay. And like you said it will make you a better person in the end. Just take it one day at a time and everything will turn out the best for both of you.

You made the right decision. Dont worry everything will be ok. Sorry that your going thru this but remember everything happens for a reason, mostly for good reasons.

i don't know you but i know you made the right decision! stay strong because you will be happier! you're already stronger than you were yesterday, imagine how you'll grow every day!

I am so so sorry you are going through this, but it really sounds like you made the right decision.

i wish you all the best stay strong,,,,

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Posted by Onedayatatime

After work last night I went home and talked to him. We called it off it was more of a mutual thing then anything else. I went out for some friends last night and told them that we ended it. He stayed home from work today and is moving his stuff out of the bedroom. Since we own the house we have to figure out what to do with it so for now he is moving into the other bedroom. I am taking this weekend to go out with friends and have a good time and be away from him. Today has been rough so far. He went out to the bar with a friend last night and got so drunk he didn't come back to the house so i woke up alone and thats when it really hit that it was over. I woke up with the feeling of did i make the right decision but i think thats because everything finally hit me and it feels real. I will get through this and come out on the other side a better person. I want to Thank all of you for all the great advice and encouragement. I couldnt have done this without you.

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WHat happened? I dont think I read your previous posts

you said it...you will come out a better person and hopefully so will he. I know its hard but sometimes these hard decisions are for the better. Give yourself time to find yourself, sometimes when your with another person you can lose yourself. This is your time, to make yourself stronger and happy. It is cloudy and dark right now but soon you will see everything brighter and your life will certainly be much better than was. I wish you the very best!