Its over

Onedayatatime Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:04 AM

Its over

After work last night I went home and talked to him. We called it off it was more of a mutual thing then anything else. I went out for some friends last night and told them that we ended it. He stayed home from work today and is moving his stuff out of the bedroom. Since we own the house we have to figure out what to do with it so for now he is moving into the other bedroom. I am taking this weekend to go out with friends and have a good time and be away from him. Today has been rough so far. He went out to the bar with a friend last night and got so drunk he didn't come back to the house so i woke up alone and thats when it really hit that it was over. I woke up with the feeling of did i make the right decision but i think thats because everything finally hit me and it feels real. I will get through this and come out on the other side a better person. I want to Thank all of you for all the great advice and encouragement. I couldnt have done this without you.

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:06 AM

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It sounds like you made the right decision no matter how hard. You will get through this, I wish you all the best. Hang in there this too shall pass. Best of luck with everything

Novia09 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:08 AM

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Be strong. Things tend to get worse before they get better.. Just stand your ground if you feel you're doing the right thing.

MayBride2010 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:10 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this - but it sounds like it is for the best. Stay strong - and things can only get better

Ray8183 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:13 AM

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Kimbalina Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:38 AM

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Good luck to you. It sounds as if you made a clear decsion, and didn't act on impulse.

Best wishes!

grkbarbie Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:39 AM

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u made the right decision.. i dont know how any1 could live their life always wondering if their spouse is being faithful.. its not healthy.

take it 1 day at a time no1 deserves to be treated like that.

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:42 AM

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I know it's hard now, but with time, you'll realize that this was definitely the right decision. Take some time to be yourself and live your own life. The right man will come along, but only after you've formed your own identity, not conformed to someone else's.

Good luck

TommysWife08 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:44 AM

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rocketsummer17 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:46 AM

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you made the right decision....stay strong

italgal Posted: Feb 20, 2009 09:48 AM

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Hang in there girl......things happen for a reason. In time you will look back on this & say ' look at me now I'm doing fine!' As far as the house it's a buyers market , it should sell in no time. Move out, move on, move to Long Beach. One of my best friends lives there, I visit with her often. If we were looking for a place to live that's where I would move.

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Feb 20, 2009 10:21 AM

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God bless!! you will heal from this...I admire your strength/

Its2Snappy Posted: Feb 20, 2009 10:45 AM

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Just wanted to give you lots of

Princesa Posted: Feb 20, 2009 10:47 AM

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Be strong! It's going to take some time but you will be better.

HamptonsBride Posted: Feb 20, 2009 10:59 AM

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You made the right decision...and when you meet a man who treats you the way you deserve you will look back and know it for sure...it's always hard to end a relationship...even if it wasn't the best...but stay strong & knw we are all behind you!!!!!

sophisticat13 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 11:13 AM

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish you all the best...you have a good head on your shoulders and it definitely sounds like you did the right thing. No one should have to start married life worrying about whether their spouse is faithful or not. Lots of for you, and we are always here if you need us!!!!

lori7570 Posted: Feb 20, 2009 11:14 AM

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You'll be ok.....if you're strong enough to end this situation you will be able to move on

KerriJohnS Posted: Feb 20, 2009 02:51 PM

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Oh.... you need lots of hugs!!!

I'm so sorry for everything you are going though. Just know that one day in the future you will realize that you made the right decision and you will be happy for that! Good Luck with everything!