I am so afraid to walk down the aisle in front of everyone.. I don't knw if its the anticipation or if I'm really scared. For those of you who did it, was it scarey??? were you nervous???? OMG, I hope that I can make it... I have panic anyway.. uggh.. I just wanted to vent, and see if anyone else felt that way..
Mrs_B
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I will probably pass out!! I hate being the center of attention!!! I am scared too!
Boop2704
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I wouldn't say I was nervous, I was just totally excited and couldn't wait for them to open the doors so I could see my hubby. I don't even remember anyone else being in the church, except my DH. I stayed focused on him. All I remember is when they did open the doors, my face just lit up with the BIGGEST smile ever. My face hurt after leaving the church because I never took that smile off!! Just take a deep breath and you'll be fine!! You will be too excited to be nervous!!
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I was nervous more than scared...it's an entirely new stage in your life and you have no idea what to expect.
You'll be fine....jsut remember to breathe and DO NOT LOCK YOUR KNEES.....that's when you'll pass out....tell everyone else in the BP too!
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I will probably pass out!! I hate being the center of attention!!! I am scared too!
That's how I am!!!
angelbear217
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I will probably pass out!! I hate being the center of attention!!! I am scared too!
That's how I feel too. I'm kinda social phobic.
Monkeybride
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I did it alone and I have to be honest, I LOST IT! Not out of fear though. The emotions of it all just came swooping over me but once I reached DH I was able to be calm and it was smooth sailing from there.
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I am very scared too! I hate being the center of attention! Of course I could make a speech in front of 100s of people that I dont know, but this is my closest family and friends and that makes me very nervous!!!!!!
Irishbride
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I was so scared and nervous. You can see me hyper-ventilating in my video and I look like I was being forced to get married. But once I was up beside my DH I was fine.
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Just breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth! Deep breaths and I am sure you will be fine! Go to the church and practice a few times - just to get the feel of it!
julz33
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I was OK up until about 1 minutes before... then I started freaking out. Thank G-D for the bridal attendant that was with me!! Once I saw Ray though I didn't notice anyone else and it was smooth sailing. You will be fine!!!
ETA: I can't believe your day is almost here! I remember when it was years away!
suven
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OMG! I was so scared that the night before my wedding I started hysterically crying so hard that I was gagging! DH came to my hotel to try to calm me down. I actually asked him if we could elope and skip the wedding entirely!
I was sick to my stomach the morning of my wedding. I was nauseaus during the limo ride to the church. Then, as soon as I heard 'Here comes the bride', I was all better! And, in retrospect, walking down the aisle was the most fantastic moment of my entire life...
Right here was when my craziness turned into excitement and happiness! And, then it was done in an instant!
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I picture myself crying hard, snots and all, or tripping as I go up the alter steps.
Spitzergirl
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I took, the easy route, i went down the aisle with both sets of parents. My nervous system, was bothering me so much, I started loosing weight over night .
Trust, me the day goes by so fast, you will have a bundle of engergy. The time passes quickly make sure you enjoy yourself. It ends very, quickly.
Jen2999
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I am scared to say my vows in front of everyone!!!!
Im a teacher and youd THINK id be ok with this.. but Im not one to be all emotional in front of my family.. YIKES
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I was TOTALLY freakin out in the back of the church.....but once the doors opened and I saw my husband waiting I was calm, cool and collected.....don't worry you will be too!
lvdolphins
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I was more excited than nervous. When the limo driver blew the 'Hear comes the bride' horn, and pulled in front of the church, I almost lost it, but I pulled myself together and was fine. Both my parents walked me down, and I just focused on DH all the way down the aisle. It was great!
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ahhhhh!!!! I want to scream, I have so much, excitement, and I've been crying (happily of course) and last night was so amazing, at midnight, my fi looked at me and said, it's our year, and we started kissing, and I love him so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks girls..
May05Bride
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I know how you feel! I am so afraid of passing out! How embarrassing!
halloweenbride04
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I wasn't scared at all, I was anxious beyond belief! Anxious to get down the aisle and see my FH. I was very surreal and it's really all a blur now. I do remember waiting in the vestibule and my mouth being so dry so my dad gave me a cert and I was sucking on that damn thing all the way down the aisle, you can see some stupid faces in pictures....so please don't be sucking on anything on the way down the aisle!!
ETS: I thought I would cry all the way down but I couldn't stop smiling.
