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It's Time to Bite the Bullet....

Original post by FLaCaTaCa

Hi Ladies!!!
How are you all? Well, it's time to let the truth be told. Pat and I cancelled our wedding. It happened on Christmas Eve. Yes, it took me a while to spill the beans. I just wanted to make sure that I was OK before posting. I wasn't too sure I was even going to say anything...I just didn't want to keep lying to those kind girls that FM'd me.

It's a long story but in the end, Pat and I wanted 2 very different things out of life. As far as a career, raising a family, location, finances and a few other things. We will try to remain friends because in the end...we obviously really care about eachother but I will be the first to admit that it has been hard.

Don't want to get too personal or throw any dirt on his name because he is a good man...just not for me as a husband. Life takes it's turns and things happen. It's what we make out of the plates we are served that show what type of person we are. I like to think of myself as a strong person so that is exactly what I have been...Strong!

To those girls that I told in January...thank you for your kind words of support, your welcoming words and your secrecy. I am eternally grateful!

Instead of saying that you are sorry for my situation...just welcome me back and let's plan all of your beautiful weddings!!!! My day will come and I am comforted in knowing that I have all of you to help join me when the time does come.

I Love You Girls with All My Heart and You Have All Truly Been Missed!!!!!!!!

~Stacy xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

***I also want to add that my vendors have been absolutely GREAT with everything and accomodating my situation. When my day does come I would not change any one of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!***
Trina (Expressions Floral Design), Makeup by Oksana, Jenn (The Hair Genie), Ariana Waterfall, Regal Bridal, Dawn from Cruise One, Cathy from Sweet Nut Hut, Jim Tartuglia
Aga Posted:

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I missed you girl, glad to see you again
Kris77 Posted:

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I dont know you,but I think you may be one of the most amazing people I have ever had ANY kind of contact with, even if it was only by reading this post. You are truly amazing, brave, and beautiful. Good Luck to you always!

Valentinegirl Posted:

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Welcome back!
regi Posted:

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lvdolphins Posted:

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Welcome Back
Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted:

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I truly admire you for making the right decision! Too many people go through with a marriage that they are unsure of, only to end up divorced!

I am sure it was not an easy decision to make, and you will find 'the one' someday and you will never look back!

Good luck to you!

jimmysgrl Posted:

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Welcome back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for your honesty and your strength and for taking your life back to where it needs to be.
MrsERod Posted:

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Stacy!!
QueensBride Posted:

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Stacy, I am so sorry for you but it does really seem like you made the right decision in your heart. You truly are amazing in your strength!!!!!

MrsA814 Posted:

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i'm so sorry and you know we are here for you.

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