IT'S TIME TO VENT AGAIN ABOUT ANYTHING YOU WANT!!!

We got this going real well a few months ago. Now it's time again. Here I go..........

Are you kidding me that 100 people are not coming to my wedding? I guess 18 months didn't give you enough time to save money for the hotel. Babies!

How can 4 people drop out of our wedding party since the beginning of the year? I didn't realize that the wedding snuck up on you and bit you on the a$$ like a rattlesnake.

The RSVP date is a week away. We stamped the envelopes. How hard is it to send it?

And, if you're driving slow, get over in the slow lane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOUR TURN!!!!

Kelly, you know I can post on this damn thing all day, right??

To my landlord: We like you, we really do, but you are sticking us between a rock and a hard place. I know we didn't have enough kitty litter in the box and that's why the house stunk of cat urine. But to force us out because of one incident after FH has been here for 4 years without a single problem is insane!! You give us 2 days to decide whether we want to take the apartment that's half the size of what we have now, or move elsewhere. Do you think we have an extra $2800 lying around for 1 month rent & security to go elsewhere??? Of course not!! And tomorrow is FH's birthday!!! Can you at least give us more time to think about this shyt so that he can actually enjoy his bday instead of stressing about where to live??!! Geez!!

To my bosses: If I don't get an answer about my health insurance in the next 24 hours, I am putting myself on the damn plan myself, since you guys did make me the administrator after all. I have been working long enough to get the insurance. I need to go to the doctor, damn it and you guys giving me the runaround is just making me an employee about to go postal!!

To my MOH: Thanks for dropping the ball on my shower to the point where my brother & mother are pissed off and you passed the responsibility onto your mother who shouldn't have anything to do with this. I shouldn't have to send an email to my brother begging him to find out why nothing has been done 2 months before the wedding!! I ran around for your shower, including tolerating some BS from your godmother who became a gestapo!! I might sound selfish, but damn it I waited 31 years for this!! Do something!!

To myself: Can you drop the chalupa for one second to go hit the gym already!! We will not be able to be zipped up at the first fitting if this keeps up!!

To Delta: Stop changing our damn itinerary for Vegas!!! If I get one more email about a flight change, I'm going to scream!!!

To American: What the hell is the point of accruing frequent flyer miles if I can't use them!!! I tried to book a flight for 10 different run of dates, and NONE of them worked!!! I'm not going to leave on a Thursday at 6am and come back on a Tuesday at midnight with 3 connections!! I would sooner take a donkey than take these flights!!

AND........

To our travel agent: I'm sorry you passed away and I hope that your soul goes to heaven. BUT.... how can you not have changed our address for the agency?!?!?! We moved nearly 6 months ago!!!!! How could you not have made the proper payments?!?!?! Our honeymoon is around the corner and it's my first vacation ever. You have seriously turned me into bridezilla.

To my mother who I love so dearly, but goodness please leave me alone with the questions already!!!!!!! I know you care and you want to be involved, but do you have to be sooooo involved? I involve her so much already because I know this is a huge thing for my parents, but please stop calling me every 10 minutes to see what I am doing, who I spoke to about the wedding (vendors, family, friends, coworkers, etc.), and who I am inviting (I must have gone over the guest list with her at LEAST 1 time every day - it has not changed mom!!). I love her so much though, and I know she is very excited and that is why she is acting like this. LOVE YA MOM!!!

To my former renters and ring insurance company, who's policy I cancelled when I moved from NJ to NY, when I write you a letter stating I want to CANCEL my policy, I do not want to change my address. I just finished my last order of business in my move yesterday and now I have more to do.

To my FH who wants to send out STDs by next week and doesn't like what I've put together so far but, won't make any changes on it. Who also, got a list from his mother for addresses with nicknames, and some of the real first names are hard to guess from the list (um, Doc, Buddy???) How can I get these done by next week!!!

And to those people who I work with who send me things to review at 4:45PM... I'll just leave it at that.

Sorry, just frustrating, not big deals now that I've read some of your issues but, it's tough when you feel like you are 'done' or 'almost done' and then you have a lot more to do!

How about a little
IT's FRIDAY GIRLS!!!!

That should cheer you up!

Ok here I go... - this should be fun since I am a teacher and have had off this entire week, which sucked.

To my shoulder that has been bothering me with tons of aches and pains this week... STOP bothering me already!

My FH has been sick with bronchitis for the past week (i am not venting about him, I just miss him), so we have not been able to spend time together.. I want him to get better soon!

My bill of $349 dollars for disposable contacts I needed to order yesterday (I have no eye coverage in my insurance plan)!!!!

Trying to save money for wedding... an apartment (which we need to start looking for in the summer which here in queens ny the prices for housing and apartments are outrageous!! furniture to furnish the place.. and alot of people I know turning 30 including my fiancee & I... lots of parties... no money....but happy times atleast ahead. =0)

one of my childhood good friends, who is also one of my BMs was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer & recently had a major doss of chemo and a life threating operation (which thankfully went well).. WHY??? at such a young age or at any age should someone go through this torment???

hmmm.. my mom driving me nutzo looking for a MOB dress..hehehe, that's the least of my worries though.

I think that's about it for now...

THANKS!! I do feel much better now.. needed to get that out, I usually don't complain.. and believe me life will have it's moments of even greater problems such as these, but it felt nice just to vent some stuff out today!

I haven't joined in before but...

TO FH: When I ask to discuss thigns its not b/c I have nothing better to do, its b/c we're adults and getting married in two months and actualyl have to discuss these things and make decisions. So when i ask for your input and you don't give it, but then get mad later for a decision i made - i get so annoyed and aggravated- do i need this stress now? Speaking of whom I just got an email from asking if i took off the pots his mom had an issue with - yes i did! Leave me alone!

Mom: Can you for once put aside your anxiety and be happy for me? And actually give me some positive attention - not make me feel like i am dragging it out of you? When we go for a fitting, can you actually feign happiness and look at me rather than everyone else around and help me in my decisions?

OK, I feel better. This is great!

get this... my grandmother just called me and asked if she could invite another couple to the wedding... i responded, grandma, the response date is in TWO days.... you cant do that!! her response... cant you just take a pen and switch the date?? UM.... NO!

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Posted by cjb88

get this... my grandmother just called me and asked if she could invite another couple to the wedding... i responded, grandma, the response date is in TWO days.... you cant do that!! her response... cant you just take a pen and switch the date?? UM.... NO!

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I know that this is a serious issue, but I just could see someone saying this to me also!

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Posted by johnsae

to my bridal party: show some f*cking interest!!!!!!!

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I know I already vented... but.....Same here!!

i have to add (regarding my bridal party):

what is the deal with saying 'i might not be able to make it to the shower, bachelorette party, etc...it's a really bad time for me' - you've known about this sh*t for over a year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't care if you have a 'class' during that time...suck it up and attend my shower for godsake.

Ok need to add on to mine......

To my FH: I know it's your birthday, and I love you to death, but why oh why are you choosing NOW to b*tch about the fact that there will be a toddler at the wedding??!! I kept asking you before we ordered the invites if we were going to have kids or not, and you said you couldn't deny your friends the option of bringing their kids. So why are you griping now if my MOH is bringing her son??? You knew this might happen!! I know I only invited her and her DH, and now because she doesn't trust his family with the kid she has to bring him. But don't put this on me!!! Had I known this was going to be such an issue for you, I would have put 'adult reception' on the invites!!!

AHHHHHHH!!!

And can you please talk to me about what the hell we're doing about the living situation??!! Instead of playing the damn video games??!! We need to tell the landlord by today what we're doing!!

And to the landlord again: Did you guys really need to have a screaming match at 6:30am this morning??!!! Some of us downstairs were trying to freaking sleep!!!!

Johnsae, I'm so sorry to hear about your BP. That *****. And how about mine. I call them to ask them if they want ME to pick up their dresses for them..>AND THEY DON'T CALL BACK. What the heck. I didn't even want 50% of them in my bridal party anyway. A-holes.

Oh and PoP. Stop treating me like crap and being mean to me. JUST BE NICE AND HAPPY.

And Mom....CARE ABOUT SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOURSELF. Act like you give a damn

To my BMs, can you buy the damn dress already??
You have had over a year to buy the dress and of course the salon said you should buy your dress by the end of February.
Hello, it is Feb 24th.

To my BM who sent an email to all other BM's stating that she was backing out of my wedding because she forgot she was going to Africa, whats that all about????????!!!! Did I mention she is my cousin??!!!

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Posted by futuremrsGafforio

To my BM who sent an email to all other BM's stating that she was backing out of my wedding because she forgot she was going to Africa, whats that all about????????!!!! Did I mention she is my cousin??!!!

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OMG - so sorry!!!

I really wish everyone would stop referring my engagement party as a 'mini-wedding' simply b/c I am having 125-130 guests... It's not my fault I'm having that many!! My FMIL has a large family and a million friends that MUST be there according to her and since they are paying for a huge chunk of it, I can't say anything Of course I didn't want that many people but I don't have a choice so I'm trying to make everything else low key!!

Just b/c I have a lot of people there doesn't mean it's a mini-wedding!!! At my wedding there will be about 250 people...so if you cut out the people who aren't really 'important'--I would say that 125-130 isn't that crazy, right??

My side of the family/friends is only about 35 people!!!!