I've been asked to post this....

First off--a big giant thank you to the girls who emailed me, called, etc. I'm not going to be able to get back to everyone but thank you for your good thoughts!
I've been hearing about other girls jumping ship and wanted to say, if you're still planning your wedding, etc. you should stay! This site is an invaluable resource and I've gotten lots of great ideas here!! I feel badly that my post might have set an example and caused other girls to abandon the boards as well.
If we all band together, maybe we can combat the negativity and 'drama'!
What do you all think? Can we move past all this and in the future, limit the craziness??
Again...as not to cause further issues here...I feel like I need to continuously stress this: my thoughts on all of this have not been brought on by an isolated incident or specific users. I've been on these boards for a loooooooooooong time and have seen many a nasty thread!
Let me know what y'all think!
Much to love to all of you!!!

stay go stay go...stay.

How many threads on this??/

Stay. period

thank you for clearing it up!! I do hope that you will stay!!

and who asked you to post this?

Just another point....
I've been ASKED to post this!

Well said Leelee thank you - I hope you stay around - you are our voice of reason

Hi LeeLee, I missed all the drama apparently but I hope you don't leave...or anyone else for that matter!

by who? just asking!

Jen...FM...
i can't 'out' this particular individual!

First off: you cant leave ever Suzanne will take over and who knows what kind of problems their will be. She'll have buckets musing peeps as initiation rituals, she'll probably have us hazing the newbies, she'll be a peep dealer, oh no the madness you cant leave us in the hands of Suzanne

ok kidding aside I hope we can all go back to our regulary scheduled weddings, jobs, happiness and keep things fun on the boards.

Chippa--

When I got home last night, I told DH what has been going on and he asked me, 'what are you going to do all day at work now??'.
and he's right!!!

Its true

FI said to me what would you do all day without LIW? I said I dont know I would go crazy

I wuv you too Peeing Elk!!!

Stay, stay, stay!!!

And you are 100% correct in what you wrote!!

I have been here a long time too and have seen lots of craziness here. I doubt that it will ever stop. That's just the way things go when you get a very diverse group of people together. I tell myself I am not going to read the BS posts but then I do anyway...hey I am human. I'm curious. It's hard to not read a thread that keeps showing up at the top of the first page. Normally I don't post on those threads because I have found it to be pointless. Those that are out to make and continue the drama will, no matter what anyone else says. The only way to stop it is to not participate and add to those threads. Just let them go. Eventually Ron will lock them or they will die on their own.

I think the we need another thread like the Peeps thread. Any ideas?

Leelee you can't leave anyway. Then the new buckets will have no names

Wendy: Suzanne will gladly take over and we just cant allow that. She goes mad with power...