Ive Got a question!!

I know alot of us had boyfriends before our FH.
I want to know... Do you feel COMPLETELY different for your FH than you did your exes? Ive had some and I feel as though this 'love' is the real thing...

The only thing that scared my was the private things starting again with a new person... lol...I think i waited as long as I could!!

To tell the truth, I wasn't very serious with any of my exes. Its funny though, I dated one HS bf for 3 months and it felt like 3 years! I've been engaged to FH 5 months and it feels like nothing! (We've been together 5+ years)

FH and me have been together for 12 years.

I think the difference for me is that with other b/f's, we had that 'passion' ..you know the magic of dating and when that fizzled, so did the relationships. But FH and me have pretty much been through everything. I mean we know when we fight now that it's not the end of the world...it's just part of the relationship. I love that we can be in a car on a road trip and not have to talk.

I guess I kind of see things differently now because of what I'm going through these days. I just can't imagine being with anybody else but my FH now. He takes me to all my doctor's appointments, he's taken over all my finances so I don't have to worry about paying bills while I'm sick. He helps me bathe and gives me my medication.

Yup...I'm definitely keeping him!!!!

I only really 'loved' one ex of mine that i dated for a year.... and even while dating FH, i was still tryin to get over him... And there just came a point where i was like hit with a ton of bricks and realized the love i had with fh was sooo different and so much more special .... I cant even explain it... I kept talkin to the ex and keepin him around for whatever reason, I hguess hoping that oneday we might get back together, but at some point you realize that you 2 have grown apart over the yrs and things arent like how they used to be back then ya know?

ive had more then 1bf before FH..and its def. not the same thing, a lot of them were just physically, not emotinally attached, and i didnt really care about that many of them, i was in high school so you know how that goes i met FH when i was in my senior year, so after that i had no other bf's......he was the last one

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

I only really 'loved' one ex of mine that i dated for a year.... and even while dating FH, i was still tryin to get over him... And there just came a point where i was like hit with a ton of bricks and realized the love i had with fh was sooo different and so much more special .... I cant even explain it... I kept talkin to the ex and keepin him around for whatever reason, I hguess hoping that oneday we might get back together, but at some point you realize that you 2 have grown apart over the yrs and things arent like how they used to be back then ya know?

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Ohhhh my goshhhhhh I feel like you just looked into my life and wrote about me. i was in the exact same situation and I had to stop one day and look at FH and realized that this man was the most amazing thing i have ever had in my life and what my ex and I had was over a long time ago.
like that book says.... it's called break up because its broken

I thought I was in love before but then I met FH and I knew the others couldnt have been love.

I also knew we were more serious when he and I starting farting in front of each other.

NOW THATS LOVE!!!