Jack and Jill

FH and I decided to have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. Most of our bridal party wanted to do a small weekend getaway, however two of my girls can't make it if we go away. We are not organizing this event, our bridal party is, but do you think we should ask them to keep it local since two of my girls can't make it. (This is 2 girls out of 10 girls that are going and 10 guys). Also, one of the two that can't make it is my MOH.

Did any of you change your venue or date because one of your girls couldn't go?

then you can keep it local.

No i didnt change anything bc of this. Going to vegas but also doing one local(moh's idea) while fh is away for his bachelor party.

The problem is that MOH has a baby. She and her daughter will be going away for two months upstate NY. I don't think she will be organizing anything for me and I don't think she would really care about missing it. She is also a MOH at another wedding a few weeks before mine. So she has a lot on her plate. And the only reason that the other one wouldn't go is because my MOH wouldn't go and she doesn't know the other girls. I don't think it would be rude in this situation, but I guess I just need a little validation from others

one of my BMs is in hawaii and is only coming to the wedding and rehearsal, so for me, it wouldnt be a problem. it depending on how important it is to you.

i think the weekend getaway and then something local is great