Since we are just about at the 2 week point and I think that the programs are really the only thing left to do.
Anyone have or know where I can get any simple programs/templates for a Jewish wedding?
I want to include some explanations but I have no idea where to begin.
PreshusSmurf
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You might want to talk to your Rabbi, sometimes they have specific ways that they'd prefer things to be worded. They may even have sample programs for you to work from.
Google! That's where I got most of our ideas - then just tweak and personalize and you shouldbe good. But as Jess mentioned, definitely have your Rabbi take a look before you print them out.
If you want, FM me and I will send you the template for my programs. We had a traditional Jewish wedding. We did everything but the circling.
roan126
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I can send you mine if you'd like...FM me if you would like them
lijen
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My friend had hers done at an invitation place in Oceanside on Long Beach Rd. (forgot the name sorry!) and they just used the info from a past jewish wedding program they had done.
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Posted by lijen
My friend had hers done at an invitation place in Oceanside on Long Beach Rd. (forgot the name sorry!) and they just used the info from a past jewish wedding program they had done.
Was it Just Announce It! they're on Long Beach Road in Oceanside.. also there's Inviatations and Beyond nearby as well on Long Beach Road.
I wish I can be of help but we're not doing programs for our ceremony but you might want to talk to your Rabbi about it since he can give the details and meanings behind each part of the ceremony.
jsta76
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I really don't want to spend the $$$ on getting programs made for me. Most of the places I saw charged upwards of $200 or more and since this is a low priority i'd rather not spend the money.
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I really don't want to spend the $$$ on getting programs made for me. Most of the places I saw charged upwards of $200 or more and since this is a low priority i'd rather not spend the money.
That's how I felt about them too- which is why I am not bothering about doing programs- imo it's just more work that I would have to do..FH was just so funny when he INSISTED on having them.. since he vetoed a few of my ideas I vetoed this one from him so I decided not to have programs.
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Here are some exaplainations I found
Seven Blessings -The seven blessings is a series of blessings that is chanted by the Rabbi. In Judaism, seven is seen as the mystical number of creation and completion. These blessings thank God for the beauty of the moment and the splendor of life.
Breaking of the Glass : The wedding ceremony is usually concluded with the groom breaking a glass under his foot. Traditionally, this custom is a symbol of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. It is also a reminder of the fragility of human relationships; and a reminder that marriage changes the lives of individuals forever. Relationships are as fragile as glass and must always be treated with care, love and respect.
this is from the knot- idk which parts you are doing--
The Tish
A traditional Jewish wedding begins with a groom's tish, Yiddish for table. The groom attempts to present a lecture on the week's Torah portion, while his male friends and family heckle and interrupt him. Meanwhile, the bride is entertained in another room by her female friends and family. Bride and groom may lead the tish together in Conservative and Reform congregations.
The Ketubah Signing
In Orthodox communities, after the tish the ketubah (Jewish marriage contract) is signed by the groom, the rabbi, and two male witnesses. In Reform and Conservative congregations, the bride may also sign the ketubah, and additonal lines can be added for female witnesses, too. Despite its testimony that the groom has 'acquired' the bride, the ketubah is all about the bride's rights and her willingness to take part in the marriage. In fact, the ketubah belongs solely to the bride and is hers to keep as proof of her rights and the groom's responsibilities to her under Jewish law.
The B'deken
The first time a bride and groom see each other in an Orthodox wedding is during the b'deken, or veiling of the bride. Both fathers and all the men lead the groom to the bride's room, where both mothers and all the women surround her. The groom lowers the veil over her face, setting her apart from everyone else and indicating that he is solely interested in her inner beauty. The ceremony is based on the biblical story in which Jacob did not see his bride's face beforehand and was tricked into marrying the wrong sister, Leah. Some couples have created a more egalitarian veiling ceremony in which the bride places a yarmulke on the groom as he covers her with the veil.
The Huppah
The huppah, or wedding canopy, dates back to the tent-dwelling Jewish nomadic days in the desert. Historically, Jewish wedding ceremonies were held outdoors, and the huppah created an intimate, sanctified space. The canopy offers one of the best opportunities to personalize your ceremony. Since there are no formal requirements for its size, shape, or appearance, you can make your own huppah.
Circling
When the couple first enters the huppah, the bride circles the groom seven times, representing the seven wedding blessings and seven days of creation, and demonstrating that the groom is the center of her world. To make the ancient ritual reciprocal, many couples opt to circle each other.
Kiddushin
The kiddushin (betrothal ceremony) takes place under the huppah. It begins with greetings, a blessing over the wine, and a sip taken by the bride and groom. Next come the rings: The groom recites an ancient Aramaic phrase as he places the wedding band on his bride's right index finger -- the finger believed to be directly connected to the heart. In a double-ring ceremony (not permitted in some Orthodox weddings) the bride also places a ring on the grooms index finger while repeating a feminine form of the Aramaic phrase, or a biblical verse from Hosea or Song of Songs. The ketubah is then read aloud in English and Aramaic.
Sheva B'rachot
The sheva b'rachot, or seven blessings, consist of praise for God, a prayer for peace in Jerusalem, and good wishes for the couple. In Sephardic weddings, before the sheva b'rachot are recited, the parents wrap the couple in a tallis, literally binding them together. The rabbi doesn't have to say all seven blessings. You can honor special guests by asking them to read -- or even sing -- some of the blessings.
Breaking of the Glass
Nothing says 'Jewish wedding' more than the sound of breaking glass. But what's the point? Depending on whom you ask, the breaking of the wineglass is, among other things: a symbol of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem; a representation of the fragility of human relationships; and a reminder that marriage changes the lives of individuals forever. It's also the official signal to shout, 'Mazel Tov!' and start partying. There's no law putting the man's foot to the task. If you're game, bride and groom can break the glass together with one swift kick in unison.
The Yihud
In a day filled with chaos, the yihud -- or 'seclusion' -- is a standout ritual that lets you focus on the days true purpose: your new partnership. Immediately after the ceremony, bride and groom retreat to a private room for 15 minutes of personal time. No in-laws, no seating arrangement charts, no videographer. Just you and your new spouse staring into each other's eyes. In days of old, bride and groom would retreat to a nearby tent for a little undercover nookie action. This isn't done much these days, but its customary for newlyweds to seize the yihud moment and feed each other a bite or two of their first meal together.
