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Shanti12 Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:35 PM+

Shanti12 MEMBER SINCE: 12/11 TOTAL POSTS : 1708 WEDDING DATE: May 04, 2013

Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:35 PM

Just a BM vent

I know other girls on here had issues with their bridesmaids and now it's my turn to vent haha
I have one who is getting married next year. She is having a destination weekend and we all said we'd be there. We are all spending lots of money and taking time off from work for her wedding.
She has the NERVE to complain to one of the other girls that she had to take off TWO days for my wedding. She has some part time job on morning of the weekend, it's probably not even worth it. She has to take off one for my shower and one the day after my wedding - which makes NO sense because she actually doesn't have to take off that one, that's just her choice.
Now she complained because I wanted to do a weekend for my bachelorette.
This girl probably shouldn't even be a bridesmaid anymore, she literally can't even be bothered to come out for my birthday or wish me a happy birthday on my 30th and let me know she's sorry she couldn't come because she was working, so I'm so over it.
I really want to step down from her wedding when this is all over because why should I spend the money and time on it.
I don't even want to be bothered with my own bachelorette at this point , everything I suggest she just has a different suggestion that I don't even want to do.
Thanks ladies like usual for listening

ariellewhitney Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:40 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:40 PM

Just a BM vent

:( so sorry !!

KroertGS Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:44 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:44 PM

Just a BM vent

UGHH! I don't get people. Sorry you have to deal with this annoying drama!!!!

Shanti12 Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:49 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 04:49 PM

Re: Just a BM vent

I don't get people either!
How can you complain and then have everyone FLY somewhere for your wedding?!?!
If you don't want to do it, don't do it, but don't ***** about it!

melnmatt2013 Posted: Mar 04, 2013 05:01 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 05:01 PM

Just a BM vent

That's terrible. People are so self centered they dont even realize how ridiculous they can be. Sorry you are dealing with this.

scottsbride Posted: Mar 04, 2013 05:39 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 05:39 PM

Just a BM vent

I have a problem BM too. I feel your pain. All you can do is let it go and maybe rethink attending her wedding and just sending a card and a gift.

Shanti12 Posted: Mar 04, 2013 06:00 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 06:00 PM

Re: Just a BM vent

Posted by scottsbride

I have a problem BM too. I feel your pain. All you can do is let it go and maybe rethink attending her wedding and just sending a card and a gift.

I've already calmed down a little bit, I was so hurt.
The girls at least said, we are going to have a good time, she's being crazy and don't worry so I mean I can't worry about it too much. If she does anymore I seriously would reconsider attending hers.

MsErikaLynn Posted: Mar 04, 2013 11:43 PM+

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Posted: Mar 04, 2013 11:43 PM

Just a BM vent

that's terrible! do what you feel is best.

dmlentz Posted: Mar 05, 2013 12:22 AM+

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Posted: Mar 05, 2013 12:22 AM

Just a BM vent

ugh sorry you are going through this. Some bm's just go rouge :( I feel like many girls (including myself) have gone through something with a BM. Just try to stick it out and ignore all the bs. Its your wedding, dont like anyone ruin it.

DharmaColbie86 Posted: Mar 05, 2013 05:38 AM+

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Posted: Mar 05, 2013 05:38 AM

Re: Just a BM vent

Posted by dmlentz

ugh sorry you are going through this. Some bm's just go rouge :( I feel like many girls (including myself) have gone through something with a BM. Just try to stick it out and ignore all the bs. Its your wedding, dont like anyone ruin it.

This!!