Just a tad PO'd (VENT! LONG SORRY)

i feel bad even writing this because i feel i don't have a right too. while fmil has been very generous about some things she's just downright stubborn about others!

so she offered to pay for the RD, so of course she wants us to plan it for somewhere in the area of the church which is no where by her. she told ray she'd be willing to pay 15/pp for about 20 people.

1st off, there is no such thing, 2nd off we're inviting 34!!! and that is bridal party and their guests and close family only (oot family)

fine, so we go around looking at different places, of course nothing is under 25 without beer wine and soda. ray tells her this and she says we don't need beer and wine, and the guests for the bridal party don't need to be invited, and neither does the family....so WHO MAY I ASK WOULD BE GOING TO THIS 'DINNER'???????

to make matters worse, she tells him for HER rehearsal, they all went out and had ice cream!!!!!!!!

i don't have a problem with her not offering to pay, i have more of a problem of her being half assed about it. so now we're going to cancel our farewell brunch ( ) because we're going to pay the remainder of this RD.



p.s. i know i sound like a selfish brat because a rd isn't even necessary, but i feel like the entire bridal party is coming from out on the island out to queens, and the ringbearer is from canada and i feel like we should have some sort of special dinner. i'm just really upset right now--UGH!