Just curiouse, RE: cheating

Shellycakes123 Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:26 PM

Just curiouse, RE: cheating

Have you ever cheated on your fi? Just curiouse.

Kara and Todd Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:30 PM

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No. Never.

D's Girl Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:30 PM

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Nope & if he did, I would cut it right off

billandme Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:32 PM

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Nope. And I NEVER would.

If he cheated on me I would call the entire thing off.

leshellem Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:33 PM

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I have never, and honestly if I had, I would end the relationship. You shouldn't marry someone you've cheated on, period.

lanabean Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:34 PM

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Never have; never will.

When I was younger, I cheated on a boyfriend--just kissing. I felt so awful, so guilt ridden, I broke up with him. I couldn't imagine what cheating on the man you promised yourself to would feel like.

But I doubt anyone here who has would answer this poll!

Kara and Todd Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:36 PM

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Two people have already responded yes.

I couldn't marry someone I cheated on -- though I've never cheated...

For ME, personally, if it were at a point where I was willing to cheat, then I am with the wrong man. Luckily, I'm with the right one!

JeanineP2B Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:36 PM

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When we were in High School this guy kissed me... totally unexpected but just a peck. I didn't kiss back I pushed away! BUT I didn't tell FH and he found out later. SO I consider it cheating since I kept it from him, which was wrong.

CaseyVM214 Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:36 PM

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No...never. Infact that post sparked a converation for me DH and I. It was interesting. Cheating is sooo hurtful, I am not sure how people recover after. Its puzzling why people would take the risk. I think that if there is something in your relationship that is causing one to think about cheating, they should end the relationship they are in first...it is the respectful thing to do.

Trishthedish Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:37 PM

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No. Never. I was already told by FH if I ever decided to do anythign like that, (which I would not do), to never come home b/c he does not believe in that and we would be over.

I have never cheated on any boyfriend's in the past. If anything, they cheated on me and I know how it feels so I would not want anyone to feel that way (sad and hurt).

Kara and Todd Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:38 PM

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Posted by CaseyVM214

I think that if there is something in your relationship that is causing one to think about cheating, they should end the relationship they are in first...it is the respectful thing to do.

My feeling exactly!

cindyandkevin Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:39 PM

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Nope, never have and never will.

We both know the pain of having been cheated on and could never do that to another person, especially the person who you've committed your love and life to.

kewlpuff Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:39 PM

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most definitely NOT!!

drpepper318 Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:40 PM

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No way. I never have and never would cheat on my FH. And I know he wouldn't either.

jenafee Posted: Nov 07, 2006 02:53 PM

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Never did, never will

kahlua716 Posted: Nov 07, 2006 03:04 PM

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kahlua716 Posted: Nov 07, 2006 03:05 PM

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AeroJenn Posted: Nov 07, 2006 03:09 PM

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Nope and never would (i just dont put myself in situations where it could happen). If I ever found out he did, first i'd make sure he couldnt ever have kids and of course i'd end it b/w us.

MrsMagoo Posted: Nov 07, 2006 03:11 PM

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Never Have and Most certainly Never Will!!

ronnysbride Posted: Nov 07, 2006 03:16 PM

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No I have never cheated on my fiance and he hasn't cheated on me. However I'm marrying him and willing to deal with any ups and downs life throws at us. If he cheated, it would not be a deal breaker for me. Of course we would have to figure out where we went wrong and it would take time to build trust again.

I do know a couple that has been married for 30+ years and were able to over come this bump in the road. It has made their relationship even stronger.