Just found out my younger cousin is getting married this May
charisma
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Just found out my younger cousin is getting married this May
She is 18 and lives with her now FH and they found out they were having a baby so I guess they wanna do the right thing...I called my cousin(her older sister) and my aunt answered the phone and said 'did you hear the good news, we're having another wedding in the family'.....i'm happy for her but a bit shocked at the same time...not sure what to feel is that bad
tricia3381
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no theres nothing wrong with having that reaction. my friend is getting married 20 days after me and planned it after i planned my wedding. at first it really hurt me, but i'm over it. hopefully in time you'll be ok with it.
MJDoc12
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Posted by tricia3381
no theres nothing wrong with having that reaction. my friend is getting married 20 days after me and planned it after i planned my wedding. at first it really hurt me, but i'm over it. hopefully in time you'll be ok with it.
i agree. i mean really hers will not compare to yours at all cause its shotgun style and has to be arranged quick, and everyone will know its shotgun! don't worry about her outshining you...yours will be great!
afrodyt2000
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From your post I did not interpret it to mean that you are worried she will outshine you. I thought you are concerned because of the circumstances your cousin is getting married under. All you can do is be there for her and hope and pray it all turns out well. It seems her mom is happy for them so try your best to be happy for them too.
charisma
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i am concerned but it just feels weird...i dont know how to explain what im feeling...i guess everyone has to live their own lives...Thanks Ladies
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Posted by afrodyt2000
From your post I did not interpret it to mean that you are worried she will outshine you. I thought you are concerned because of the circumstances your cousin is getting married under. All you can do is be there for her and hope and pray it all turns out well. It seems her mom is happy for them so try your best to be happy for them too.
This is waht I got to, as much as its the 'right thing to do' are they happy together? that would be my concern really. Not saying that they cant be just saying if you are questioning the marriage there is probably a reason