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Just got back from the bank...

DNS91308 Posted:

Just got back from the bank...

FH and I officially opened our joint accounts.

I dont really know how i feel about that.

kristi313 Posted:

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we did that a few months ago. it's nice. but i kept my own acct too just to keep a little spending freedom.

Wedding999 Posted:

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Congrats - it'll be ok
rahana316 Posted:

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Posted by kristi313

we did that a few months ago. it's nice. but i kept my own acct too just to keep a little spending freedom.



I agree. This is what I am going to do also. Do your FH have his own account as well or just you?
RadiantBride Posted:

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I agree with the other girls. FH and I did it once we got engaged but we still kept our individual accounts opened as well.

Browneyesncute Posted:

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I did that last month! lil scarey lol

DNS91308 Posted:

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Posted by kristi313

we did that a few months ago. it's nice. but i kept my own acct too just to keep a little spending freedom.



Yeah we both kept our other accounts as well.

Its just a weird feeling.
cbcf Posted:

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Fh and I have 2 joint accounts. We have ING savings for our wedding money and a WaMu checking to transfer money from ING to WaMu to write checks out for the wedding balances.

We dont mind it however- fh is a stickler and makes sure i put in my certain amount of money into ING every paycheck on time haha he is anul about bills and such! which i guess is good in my case since i am not great with remembering to pay things.

But we do have seperate checking accounts where our paychecks go into- which we will probably join together when we finally get married
Future Mulligan Posted:

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we opened a joint account this weekend with our gifts from our eparty - we are going to try not to touch it until AFTER the wedding - wish us luck!! hahahaha!!

but we also have seperate saving and checking accounts.....we've been living together for so long that everyhting is 'our' money but i just think its easier to keep checking accounts seperate.....and its nice that we each have our own savings - especially for when i want to buy him things or surprise him - or like when he was saving for my e-ring! he couldn't have pulled that off if we had a shared account - i think id noticed him savings thousands of dollars and then all of a sudden it disappearing!....i think that after the wedding we'll probably keep things the same.... i could never imagine not having my own account! i'd feel naked!
Julybride08 Posted:

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Congrats!!!

Me and FH opened one last year. I was so excited about it!!!
Kimbalina Posted:

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I thought I wanted to do that,, but not yet...
Great for you 2 though!
DNS91308 Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

we opened a joint account this weekend with our gifts from our eparty - we are going to try not to touch it until AFTER the wedding - wish us luck!! hahahaha!!

but we also have seperate saving and checking accounts.....we've been living together for so long that everyhting is 'our' money but i just think its easier to keep checking accounts seperate.....and its nice that we each have our own savings - especially for when i want to buy him things or surprise him - or like when he was saving for my e-ring! he couldn't have pulled that off if we had a shared account - i think id noticed him savings thousands of dollars and then all of a sudden it disappearing!....i think that after the wedding we'll probably keep things the same.... i could never imagine not having my own account! i'd feel naked!




I could never imagine not having my own account either... but its not terrible. Fh says whats mine is mine and whats his is mine too
anneandchris Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

we opened a joint account this weekend with our gifts from our eparty - we are going to try not to touch it until AFTER the wedding - wish us luck!! hahahaha!!

but we also have seperate saving and checking accounts.....we've been living together for so long that everyhting is 'our' money but i just think its easier to keep checking accounts seperate.....and its nice that we each have our own savings - especially for when i want to buy him things or surprise him - or like when he was saving for my e-ring! he couldn't have pulled that off if we had a shared account - i think id noticed him savings thousands of dollars and then all of a sudden it disappearing!....i think that after the wedding we'll probably keep things the same.... i could never imagine not having my own account! i'd feel naked!



Us too. We have had a joint account for years but still keep seperate accounts as well. I couldn't not have my own account either!
Dougs Girl Posted:

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We opened a joint savings account with our engagement party gifts too. We also have a joint checking account and then we each have our own savings account. But, I'm the one who writes all the checks and does all the banking.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by DNS91308


Posted by kristi313

we did that a few months ago. it's nice. but i kept my own acct too just to keep a little spending freedom.



Yeah we both kept our other accounts as well.

Its just a weird feeling.



yeah we did that also... fh jumped at it asap.. hes a banker so he needed to meet a quota so it was set and done before i even aggreed to it!!!

its ok though... i still have my own savings and checking as does he... we just have a joint savings, and another one for holidays so we dont touch our savings...

i love the idea... its more 'official' for me liek this.
Kris0703 Posted:

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We have a joint checking and savings... No seperate accounts for us. I guess we felt like we had to dive right in! I really like it. We can pay all the bills on time now , instead of having to wait til next paycheck or whatever. The only thing that took some time getting used to was remembering to tell each other when we took $ out of the ATM. We share the bank account and the bills. It took some time to look at HIS student loans as MY bill. But, I guess that's marriage!!! hahaha
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by Kris0703

We have a joint checking and savings... No seperate accounts for us. I guess we felt like we had to dive right in! I really like it. We can pay all the bills on time now , instead of having to wait til next paycheck or whatever. The only thing that took some time getting used to was remembering to tell each other when we took $ out of the ATM. We share the bank account and the bills. It took some time to look at HIS student loans as MY bill. But, I guess that's marriage!!! hahaha



yeah Fh doesnt even want to think of my loans as his QUITE yet.... its something he def needs to get used to.
cbcf Posted:

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx


Posted by Kris0703

We have a joint checking and savings... No seperate accounts for us. I guess we felt like we had to dive right in! I really like it. We can pay all the bills on time now , instead of having to wait til next paycheck or whatever. The only thing that took some time getting used to was remembering to tell each other when we took $ out of the ATM. We share the bank account and the bills. It took some time to look at HIS student loans as MY bill. But, I guess that's marriage!!! hahaha



yeah Fh doesnt even want to think of my loans as his QUITE yet.... its something he def needs to get used to.



yeah fh jokes around and says 'i guess in 2 years i will be paying our student loans off' meanwhile he doesn't have any i am the one in debt about 75000$ for school loans haha
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx


Posted by Kris0703

We have a joint checking and savings... No seperate accounts for us. I guess we felt like we had to dive right in! I really like it. We can pay all the bills on time now , instead of having to wait til next paycheck or whatever. The only thing that took some time getting used to was remembering to tell each other when we took $ out of the ATM. We share the bank account and the bills. It took some time to look at HIS student loans as MY bill. But, I guess that's marriage!!! hahaha



yeah Fh doesnt even want to think of my loans as his QUITE yet.... its something he def needs to get used to.



yeah fh jokes around and says 'i guess in 2 years i will be paying our student loans off' meanwhile he doesn't have any i am the one in debt about 75000$ for school loans haha



HA HA EXACTLY !!1 we are in teh same $$$$$$$ boat... lol hes like couldnt u go to school for 2 years.... did you HAVE to go to school!?@

all fun and games though.... ha ha
hwolf812 Posted:

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i almost threw up on the table in commerce

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