Sorry... this is a total venting post! Feel free to vent with me!! So- everyone's opninions are starting to DRIVE me crazy. Especially my FH's fam. So last night we all went out to dinner... and our Best Man is my FH's brother. So he asked FH were they were going to get the Tuxes... and FH said 'Idk, Men's warehouse?' and BM was like 'Oh thats dumb.. were gunna go to Ricos, I know someone there and blah blah....' So I was like... whatever... then I said 'Well I just want to look at vests to color coordinate...' and BM told me that 'Thats a terrible idea. I hate when people try to match the bridesmaids and the groomsmen....' So now I was like, 'This is what we are doing, when you get married you do what you want.' And FH was just sitting there quiet..lol.... THEN he proceeded to tell me that my MOH has NO right to make a speech!!!!!!!!!!!! And HE should be the ONLY one allowed to speak!!!!!!!!!!!! Because he thinks 'weddings get rediculous'...I just said 'If she wants to say something, she WILL say something' OMG...thats were I wanted to smack him on his thick STUBORN head! Who the heck is he!!!!!!?@??@ UGH! And this is the way it ALWAYS is... he ALWAYS thinks he's right!!! and that he can say whatever he wants! Because NOone in the family questions him! Im just soo not in the mood for unnecessary stress.
FutureMrsLots
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UGH! What's up with people? Tell him when he gets married he can make all those decisions but until then SHHHHHHHH....NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY!
Lonveair
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sheesh! Tell me about it!!!
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what's wrong with people. it's not his wedding and he should have a say in where your FH gets the tuxes, matching vests, or who can and cannot give a speech. That's just crap. Good job on taking a stand though, don't let him say whatever and get away with it.
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ugh!! that's so annoying!!! Did FH say anything to him??
futuremrsetch
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It sounds like you stood your ground though, that is good because it can get overwhelming sometimes.
leesah85
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ugh im so sorry you had to go through that dear People ****.
adelya21
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UMMMMMMMM why in the world wouldnt ur MOH be making a speech! Yeah okay lol
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ahhhh that's nuts. Best man is FH brother too and he has a bunch of opinions. He is fighting with some of his friends that we are friends with as well. He tried to tell me which ones I can invite.I just laughed and told him we will invite who we want to!! Dont worry its your wedding!!! Is FH understanding of why you are frustrated?
GR2010
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This is EXACTLY how my FBIL is and NO ONE EVER SAYS ANYTHING TO HIM!!! It makes me INSANE!!!
I feel your pain!!!
FutureMcBride
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UGHHH i feel for you!!! I am sorry you have to deal with this BS!
Tell them to go F$(@ thmselves! hahaha
lissylissa
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i seriously dislike people when they think they have the right to put their 2senses in when helllllllooooooo they have noooo right its not their wedding!!!!!!!
scooby8323
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Basically people are crazy when it comes to a wedding. Sorry you have to go through it
Tromsugar2b
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ugh wow i would be so pissed.....seriously your wedding is the one time when you honestly just want your friends to shut up and agree with you, and you'll do the same for them on their day!! damnn no one else seems to know that though!!
SoontobeGallagher
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I'm sorry you have to deal with that nonsense.
Nina1010
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Some people think it is always all about them. They need an OFF switch.
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Posted by Nina1010
Some people think it is always all about them. They need an OFF switch.
I agree.
MrsVtoBe
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ughh so annoying. sorry you had to deal with that. People need to mind their own business and sometimes just shut the f up!!
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Posted by oktropical
ugh!! that's so annoying!!! Did FH say anything to him??
Yea- He told him things are going to be the way WE want them. I just cant see where people think I really want or need all their opinions. Everyone thinks they are helping, but they definately arent!
