Just need to vent
I'm so done with FH and his family throughout all this.
I love his family, they welcomed me and are so amazing and I'm so thankful for them. But seriously with the wedding planning every single issue is related to his family.
We decided to get married here instead of my home town and FH promised that his mom would help me out because mine isnt here. But all that has done has caused headaches. She constantly makes little comments or faces that maybe she doesnt even realize she is doing because I do things I guess differently than the way her freinds do things. Wer're getting married in NYC- that wasnt enough she wanted it ON LI which didnt make sense because more than half the people coming INCLUDING MY ENTIRE IMMEDIATE FAMILY are OOT and NYC makes more sense plus its where FH and I live! She comments on the food, venue, costs of things (some things I'm paying too much some too little no consistency) but yet when I have important appts like a fitting nope nobody is available to help or pick up any of the slack. FSIL was the LAST bm to CHOOSE her dress and get measured (and she only tried on long originalyl when I told my girls they were wearing short) and now a month later the salon keeps calling ME because she is the only one who hasnt picked hers up or called. And now with the invitations. I do EVERYTHING myself and get slammed and nobody offers help EVER i have to BEG for it and then i get asked why the invites werent ready before today when THEY GAVE ME THEIR ADDRESS LIST 5 DAYS AFTER I HAD ASKED FOR IT TO BE TO ME! thats why they werent ready! i'm so angry at FH right now and his whole family and of course we are staying there tonight because we have to fly early tomorrow and we are leaving the dog with them and i just am SO done with this!
thank you for reading if you got this far. *curtsy*
I love his family, they welcomed me and are so amazing and I'm so thankful for them. But seriously with the wedding planning every single issue is related to his family.
We decided to get married here instead of my home town and FH promised that his mom would help me out because mine isnt here. But all that has done has caused headaches. She constantly makes little comments or faces that maybe she doesnt even realize she is doing because I do things I guess differently than the way her freinds do things. Wer're getting married in NYC- that wasnt enough she wanted it ON LI which didnt make sense because more than half the people coming INCLUDING MY ENTIRE IMMEDIATE FAMILY are OOT and NYC makes more sense plus its where FH and I live! She comments on the food, venue, costs of things (some things I'm paying too much some too little no consistency) but yet when I have important appts like a fitting nope nobody is available to help or pick up any of the slack. FSIL was the LAST bm to CHOOSE her dress and get measured (and she only tried on long originalyl when I told my girls they were wearing short) and now a month later the salon keeps calling ME because she is the only one who hasnt picked hers up or called. And now with the invitations. I do EVERYTHING myself and get slammed and nobody offers help EVER i have to BEG for it and then i get asked why the invites werent ready before today when THEY GAVE ME THEIR ADDRESS LIST 5 DAYS AFTER I HAD ASKED FOR IT TO BE TO ME! thats why they werent ready! i'm so angry at FH right now and his whole family and of course we are staying there tonight because we have to fly early tomorrow and we are leaving the dog with them and i just am SO done with this!
thank you for reading if you got this far. *curtsy*
