Just need to vent... LONG

Sooo... I'm trying not to be one of those brides that deserves their own episode on Bridezillas, so I tend to keep my concerns to myself but this past month has been NUTS...

First, my mother was diagnosed with cancer in July and had major surgery in the middle of August. BC of her surgery I decided to cancel my trip to South Beach with a few of my BMs. Apparently, there was drama down there (I don't know, and don't want to know what happened). Now two of my closest and oldest friends who are both BMs are arguing (more like not speaking)... One feels its necessary to tell me this and then say she doesn't care and doesn't want to talk about it... Ughhh! I HATE girl drama.

Then we hired our photog back in July. We were chatting and told him our e-party was the next day. He offered to come shoot the party and would get us the pics in a few weeks. I called 3 weeks ago and they promised ourpics the next week. Well 3 weeks later we havent heard from them. Now Fh is getting irritated and we our thinking of changing photogrpahers but our worried we are going to lose our deposit...

Ahhh... I'm sure that there is more to come but I'm just getting frustrated. I know that I don't post often but figured you ladies would understand.

sorry you are going through all this... but as far as your BM's go.... you really should just let them work it out on their own. you have enough to worry about im sure. if they are really good friends they will...or should!!
and the photographer , i would go with your FH and go there personally and see what the story is... put up a fight, and demand answers.. i hate that BS.
hang in there

Take deep breaths
It sounds to me like you are nowhere near being bridezilla but have legitimate problems. I'm sorry about your mom and you need to tell your friends to get their heads out of their butts and make pearce for your sake & your sanity. As far as your photog goes, at least you know now as opposed to after the wedding what their word is worth. Hope you feel better

Sorry to hear - hope everything works out ok!

I am sorry you are having such a rough time As for your BMs, tell them to either work it out or forget about being in your bridal party when you have way more important things to worry about. Sometimes a little kick in the booty will set them straight As far as the photog, I would call one more time and tell him that if you do not have your proofs you will file a complaint with the BBB and tell other potential brides to stay away Again, a little kick in the tush will help.

Thanks for letting me vent! Just needed to get it out...

I hoping that the girls find some common sense and not make a big deal out of whatever happened!

FH sent an email to the photog last night. I guess we'll just have to wait and see what happens. Worst case scenario, I'll be back on the market for a new one!