FOCCUS SURVEY FOR PRE-CANA... what kind of crap was that??? i loved the question: 'my spouse and i have agreed on our financial contribution to the church.' Aggravating... but not surprised...
kimiequa
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haha that's funny, my mom and dad just talked to me about taking it. its not required, but they want us to do it..... not sure where i stand, especially since the couple that will be foccusing us are my parents best friends whom i have known FOREVER!!
DonnaPWhite1124
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haha yeah I saw that online when I was looking for churches to go to the classes.
Yes, and dont forget the 'reccommended donation' the church wants for your ceremony.
little34
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oh no!! Share some more...FH and I are getting married at RH so we are not doing pre cana....I have heard some crazy things they ask you....LOL
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Yes, I would like to hear some of the questions as well. I mean, FH and I have to do this questionaire thingy but one that our Pastor made... soo..it's not the same.
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my personal favorites were, 'my future spouses gambling worries me' and 'the amount that my future spouse drinks worries me', lol!
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Posted by FutureMrsM
my personal favorites were, 'my future spouses gambling worries me' and 'the amount that my future spouse drinks worries me', lol!
YES YES! omg... we took it together even though we weren't supposed to on separate laptops... we were laughing out loud...
FOCCUS survey is required if you are getting married at any roman catholic church... you are required to take the 165 question survey, then pre cana classes in addition to that where they also address your answers to the survey... it was so ridiculous!!!
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I loved the question ' are you scared to see your spouse naked' or something like that.
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I loved the question ' are you scared to see your spouse naked' or something like that.
they asked that!!!?? Im getting married at the RH so I dont have to do any of this c rap. Share more! Im cracking up over here!
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I know and I def. answered some incorrectly, hit too fast, and you can't go back and correct.
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I loved the question ' are you scared to see your spouse naked' or something like that.
YUP!!! THAT'S ANOTHER ONE!
can't even take it... there was another one about God and his presence in our sex life... WHAT?!?!?!?!
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can't even take it... there was another one about God and his presence in our sex life... WHAT?!?!?!?!
That is super creepy!!!!
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HAHA when we took it they made us take a 25 question 'Penalty Cohabitation Section'.
code for: you are a huge ____ now sit here and feel ____-ish
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Posted by gporka23
I loved the question ' are you scared to see your spouse naked' or something like that.
they asked that!!!?? Im getting married at the RH so I dont have to do any of this c rap. Share more! Im cracking up over here!
Yeah Fh and I were cracking up while doing it... I mean they asked some other good questions too that made us actually think but then some were just weird and creepy
