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Just when I thought life couldn't get any worse..

Original post by Mrs. V 2008

I've been having real stress lately with the wedding, and everything else..and my fh found out on thursday that he got laid off from his job...2 FRIGGEN MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING, AND 3 MONTHS AFTER WE BOUGHT OUR HOUSE. I can't take this crap anymore..i've been crying for 2 days wondering how we are able to make it through this..im worried sick about him and our future..I just hope he can find some other job soon with a stable salary...please say some prayers ..i could really use them
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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I really do believe that everything happens for a reason. Im sorry about this situation. I can only imagine how stressful it is.

debismom Posted:

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

I've been having real stress lately with the wedding, and everything else..and my fh found out on thursday that he got laid off from his job...2 FRIGGEN MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING, AND 3 MONTHS AFTER WE BOUGHT OUR HOUSE. I can't take this crap anymore..i've been crying for 2 days wondering how we are able to make it through this..im worried sick about him and our future..I just hope he can find some other job soon with a stable salary...please say some prayers ..i could really use them



Praying, Kristin!!!!! Much Love!!!!!!!!! Mary MOB
SparkyandAng Posted:

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Posted by dgrn897

I definately can get worse. My friend called me friday and said, 'Are you stressing wedding details because if you are stop now!'.
I dont know if you have seen on the news , about the crane accident in NYC. Well if not , a 30 year old guy died and was getting married in 3 weeks. My friend is friends with his sister-in-law and will be going to his buriel on tuesday!!!
So, please, I know that him losing his job right before the wedding is terrible, will definately cause stress and put a strain on things but guess what... its fixable, people can help, he can get another job etc...
Lets all think about this poor bride to be, his family for a second... Thats ' the worse thing' that can happen. I said so many prayers for this poor girl. His funeral is in a church 5 minutes from my house. I was sick when I heard it, and trust me, with 1 week to go, yeah, there are things I can stress over but I refuse to.
Lets all count our blessings and say a prayer for him and his loved ones and remember.... everything will work out!!!


Well said and I agree but sometimes when you are in your own stress, it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize there is always someone who has it worse. Thank you for putting things into perspective for me. I'm in Kristen's situation...I'll be losing my job by the end of the summer which is two months before the wedding and we were looking for houses, but have since stopped. I do believe everything works out though.
bluekat16 Posted:

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so sorry to hear that happened It seems like this past week has been the week of lay off's...6 of my former co-workers were laid off with more to vome.

Your FH will land on his feet and it's good that he's looking forward to a better job. Stay positive!!!!!!!!
megzzie Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear this. You are one of the sweetest people I've ever met and to hear that you are going through a rough patch upsets me. I hope everything works out for the best. Stay strong!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by dgrn897

I definately can get worse. My friend called me friday and said, 'Are you stressing wedding details because if you are stop now!'.
I dont know if you have seen on the news , about the crane accident in NYC. Well if not , a 30 year old guy died and was getting married in 3 weeks. My friend is friends with his sister-in-law and will be going to his buriel on tuesday!!!
So, please, I know that him losing his job right before the wedding is terrible, will definately cause stress and put a strain on things but guess what... its fixable, people can help, he can get another job etc...
Lets all think about this poor bride to be, his family for a second... Thats ' the worse thing' that can happen. I said so many prayers for this poor girl. His funeral is in a church 5 minutes from my house. I was sick when I heard it, and trust me, with 1 week to go, yeah, there are things I can stress over but I refuse to.
Lets all count our blessings and say a prayer for him and his loved ones and remember.... everything will work out!!!


You absolutely right! when i heard about that i cried..really put things in perspective for me..You really have to appreciate what you have..and all the loved ones in your life..because in a blink of an eye it could all be gone..thankyou
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by SparkyandAng

Posted by dgrn897

I definately can get worse. My friend called me friday and said, 'Are you stressing wedding details because if you are stop now!'.
I dont know if you have seen on the news , about the crane accident in NYC. Well if not , a 30 year old guy died and was getting married in 3 weeks. My friend is friends with his sister-in-law and will be going to his buriel on tuesday!!!
So, please, I know that him losing his job right before the wedding is terrible, will definately cause stress and put a strain on things but guess what... its fixable, people can help, he can get another job etc...
Lets all think about this poor bride to be, his family for a second... Thats ' the worse thing' that can happen. I said so many prayers for this poor girl. His funeral is in a church 5 minutes from my house. I was sick when I heard it, and trust me, with 1 week to go, yeah, there are things I can stress over but I refuse to.
Lets all count our blessings and say a prayer for him and his loved ones and remember.... everything will work out!!!


Well said and I agree but sometimes when you are in your own stress, it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize there is always someone who has it worse. Thank you for putting things into perspective for me. I'm in Kristen's situation...I'll be losing my job by the end of the summer which is two months before the wedding and we were looking for houses, but have since stopped. I do believe everything works out though.


I'm sorry to hear that also...And thanks ladies..i appreciate the support
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by megzzie

I'm so sorry to hear this. You are one of the sweetest people I've ever met and to hear that you are going through a rough patch upsets me. I hope everything works out for the best. Stay strong!

aw thanks so much meg..your going to make me tear...i appreciate the support
Mici n KC Posted:

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Everything is going to work out!
dazies1011 Posted:

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Im soooo sorry to hear this but, it's true everything will workout. All things happen for a reason even if we dont see it at that exact moment. They do...things will get better.
DCLM726 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this. I will keep FH and you in my thoughts

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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thanks girls

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by SparkyandAng

Posted by dgrn897

I definately can get worse. My friend called me friday and said, 'Are you stressing wedding details because if you are stop now!'.
I dont know if you have seen on the news , about the crane accident in NYC. Well if not , a 30 year old guy died and was getting married in 3 weeks. My friend is friends with his sister-in-law and will be going to his buriel on tuesday!!!
So, please, I know that him losing his job right before the wedding is terrible, will definately cause stress and put a strain on things but guess what... its fixable, people can help, he can get another job etc...
Lets all think about this poor bride to be, his family for a second... Thats ' the worse thing' that can happen. I said so many prayers for this poor girl. His funeral is in a church 5 minutes from my house. I was sick when I heard it, and trust me, with 1 week to go, yeah, there are things I can stress over but I refuse to.
Lets all count our blessings and say a prayer for him and his loved ones and remember.... everything will work out!!!


Well said and I agree but sometimes when you are in your own stress, it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize there is always someone who has it worse. Thank you for putting things into perspective for me. I'm in Kristen's situation...I'll be losing my job by the end of the summer which is two months before the wedding and we were looking for houses, but have since stopped. I do believe everything works out though.


very much agreed! i do feeel bad for those families..that was such a tradegy..but it is extremely difficult to forget my own issues entirely..i still worry..
cherish83 Posted:

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Kristen, I am so sorry you are going through this 2 months before the wedding. I know what you are going through though. Since we've been engaged Brian has been laid off 3 times. I know how stressful it is. But trust me things will work out. He just cant let it get him down. Go out and get the NY Times today and look for jobs. Something will come up, try and stay positive. If he sees that you are worried, it'll worry him more.
dgrn897 Posted:

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Without a doubt... but please dont think for a second it wont work out! You have so much happiness to look forward too, and everything does happen for a reason, whether he will get a better job, who knows , but this will get worked out... , I will pray for you! I bet you will be posting good news before you know it!

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