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Just when my day couldn't get any worse - you gotta read this one lol

Original post by Clover23

If you've read my other recent posts about my fight with FH earlier this week and my awful day today this will make more sense.

Anyway FH went to the big east tournament tonight like he wanted. My dad gave him and my BIL two tickets, floor seats, nice gesture. They met up with FH's friends also.

FH asked me to trust him that he'd be home shortly after the game ended. I went to bed at 11.

fast forward to 1:15am, I wake up from the wind and rain. Feeling bad that FH would have to walk home from train, I texted him for an update. No response. Call. No response. Numerous phone calls and texts to his friends later, I find out that allegedly FH was all set to take a train home after the game and my BIL wanted to go out. So they went out. Turned into an 'unofficial' bachelor party.

around 230 my sister starts texting me. She's up with my 2 1/2 year old niece and the 1 month old baby. where is her husband... he's not picking up his phone. have i heard from FH. so i told her what i knew.

much longer story short, they're now supposedly on a 414 train to mineola. My FH is passed out. Like unwakeable. My BIL can't carry him by himself. My other BIL has to go pick them up at mineola to help him out. They will be bringing FH here and carrying him into the house.

I've been awake now since 1:15, and yeah, my shower is at noon tomorrow. I doubt i'll ever know what really happened but I can't even describe how angry I am. Not to mention that my wonderful FH is on Chantix and allergy meds. And fat burners. No wonder he won't wake up.

If you read this thanks for listening. This has officially been the worst day of my life.

ETA: It's now 5:48, i'm still up, he's still not home. The train was supposed to get in at 446. No one is responding to texts.

ETA again: It's now 6:50. A cop car just dropped him off. My BIL lost him on the train... FH apparently had the frame of mind to get off at new hyde park because that's where we usually get off. so he just got off the train, while my BIL stayed on and got off at mineola. But FH didn't tell him. So i drove around looking for him. Have no idea what actually happened but he's home, sh!tfaced, drenched, shivering, but alive. T-5 hours til my bridal shower!
SummerBride10 Posted:

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oh wow Elizabeth thats gotta be really hard and scary to not know where he is.

Just try and enjoy your shower
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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OMG!!! I so sorry. I hope everything is ok now. Enjoy ur shower!!! I hope it will cheer you up.

Lil OC Posted:

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How selfish and immature of him, but oh-so-typical of a man.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this and hope you can still enjoy your shower. Honestly when he's not hungover anymore I would have a good stern talk with him bc that type of behavior is unacceptable.
Alexandra17 Posted:

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I am mad for you even just reading this..I wouldn't know what to do but all I can give you are and tell you to try to enjoy your shower because he has to drag all your goodies home. give him h ell
KrisD72310 Posted:

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OMG!!!! I would kill him for putting you through all that. So sorry you had to go through that the night before your shower.
20mrsc10 Posted:

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i am so sorry!! just try to get a little sleep, and enjoy your shower as much as possible
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Holy shyt.

Douchebaggery at epic proportions.

Please don't let it ruin your shower, C-Lovah. You only have one bridal shower in your life. Have the best time you can IN SPITE of his ridiculous actions.

And if anyone got something for you that he REALLY wanted, drive yo' @ss over to the store after your shower and return that shyt.

Clover23 Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Holy shyt.

Douchebaggery at epic proportions.

Please don't let it ruin your shower, C-Lovah. You only have one bridal shower in your life. Have the best time you can IN SPITE of his ridiculous actions.

And if anyone got something for you that he REALLY wanted, drive yo' @ss over to the store after your shower and return that shyt.






im about to dry my hair, i hope it wakes his a$$ up.
StaceyWill Posted:

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OMG!!!! I don't know what to say
MisyMiss32 Posted:

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Sorry that the night turned into that.
Take a DEEP breath and enjoy your day! Please don't let a man's stupidity ruin your day!! Like I always say unfortunately; Boys will always be boys.
Lsorrent Posted:

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OMG Elizabeth

Try to enjoy your shower today........I'm sure you'll be having a LONG talk with FH tonight
MrsSoto Posted:

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omg i am so sorry. i cant even start to imagine how effin mad you are at him and how hurt you are that you cant trust what happened buz you never got a straight answer from anyone.

just a little advice, sorry, i know its unsolicated. try not to talk about it at your shower as much as you want to because you dont want to regret talking abuot things about you and fh that you normally wouldnt to people and then wishing later on once this passes that those people didnt know what happened.


i am so sorry. this is so ****** and especially before your shower.
JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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Stupid boys!!!

Dry your hair, blast some music... talk LOUD ON THE PHONE. Wake his @ss up.... and when the shower is over make him pack up all of the big heavy items.

I bet he really resents those flowers now!!!

Have a wonderful time at your shower today is all about you!!
iHeartMoogle Posted:

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WOW I can't believe that. I'd probably have a heart attack.

Sorry he put you through that! Enjoy your shower though.
KM714 Posted:

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oh my god! wow! im so so sorry. take a deep breathe, enjoy your shower...and make him owe you big time. i can't imagine how i would react. id probably give him the cold shoulder, which i know isnt productive in any way, but it would keep the peace until the shower was over.

stay positive. get some starbucks with an extra shot of caffeine in there.
Clover23 Posted:

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thank you so much everyone. only 3 people besides FMIL, my mom, and my sisters know what happened (that will be at the shower lol) and I gave instructions to keep quiet about it. I don't want to talk about it at all - my family really put a lot into planning this for me and I don't want to take that for granted. I've just never felt so greatful for all of the people in my life besides FH!

oh, the hair dryer didn't wake him up. i actually checked to make sure he was still breathing!
heathery72 Posted:

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That's insane! Try not to think about it and have an awesome day!

jackieee Posted:

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oh girl, I'm so sorry!! I would have been fuming!!!! I hope you got some sleep, and enjoy your day today!!

MEN!!!!
oktropical Posted:

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omg I hope you had a grat time at your shower despite your horrible night!!
scatteredx12 Posted:

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Omg I'm so sorry you had to deal with that... I would have been FUMING!!! Despite what happened, I hope you had an amazing time at your shower!! You only have one, so I hope you were able to make the best of it!!

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