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Just when my day couldn't get any worse - you gotta read this one lol

Clover23 Posted:

Just when my day couldn't get any worse - you gotta read this one lol

If you've read my other recent posts about my fight with FH earlier this week and my awful day today this will make more sense.

Anyway FH went to the big east tournament tonight like he wanted. My dad gave him and my BIL two tickets, floor seats, nice gesture. They met up with FH's friends also.

FH asked me to trust him that he'd be home shortly after the game ended. I went to bed at 11.

fast forward to 1:15am, I wake up from the wind and rain. Feeling bad that FH would have to walk home from train, I texted him for an update. No response. Call. No response. Numerous phone calls and texts to his friends later, I find out that allegedly FH was all set to take a train home after the game and my BIL wanted to go out. So they went out. Turned into an 'unofficial' bachelor party.

around 230 my sister starts texting me. She's up with my 2 1/2 year old niece and the 1 month old baby. where is her husband... he's not picking up his phone. have i heard from FH. so i told her what i knew.

much longer story short, they're now supposedly on a 414 train to mineola. My FH is passed out. Like unwakeable. My BIL can't carry him by himself. My other BIL has to go pick them up at mineola to help him out. They will be bringing FH here and carrying him into the house.

I've been awake now since 1:15, and yeah, my shower is at noon tomorrow. I doubt i'll ever know what really happened but I can't even describe how angry I am. Not to mention that my wonderful FH is on Chantix and allergy meds. And fat burners. No wonder he won't wake up.

If you read this thanks for listening. This has officially been the worst day of my life.

ETA: It's now 5:48, i'm still up, he's still not home. The train was supposed to get in at 446. No one is responding to texts.

ETA again: It's now 6:50. A cop car just dropped him off. My BIL lost him on the train... FH apparently had the frame of mind to get off at new hyde park because that's where we usually get off. so he just got off the train, while my BIL stayed on and got off at mineola. But FH didn't tell him. So i drove around looking for him. Have no idea what actually happened but he's home, sh!tfaced, drenched, shivering, but alive. T-5 hours til my bridal shower!
TraceySLP1 Posted:

Re: Just when my day couldn't get any worse - you gotta read this one lol

OMG im so sorry, what a horrible night...hope everything is ok.
Spring143 Posted:

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omg. M!!!
So as far as a bachelor party Im assuming thats it right? or is he planning on having another one?
everytime G went out for xmas party or his bachelor party it turned into the waiting game so I totally feel your pain!!
I love how you say allegedly-your such a lawyer
Hopefully you are sleeping & you can still enjoy your bridal shower.

Clover23 Posted:

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Posted by Spring143

omg. M!!!
So as far as a bachelor party Im assuming thats it right? or is he planning on having another one?
everytime G went out for xmas party or his bachelor party it turned into the waiting game so I totally feel your pain!!
I love how you say allegedly-your such a lawyer
Hopefully you are sleeping & you can still enjoy your bridal shower.




Nope, not sleeping. Definitely awake. If i go to sleep now I won't get up.

And no, this wasn't his bachelor party, that's taking place the weekend after easter. This was a basketball game turned into an 'unofficial bachelor party'
MR1223 Posted:

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that is terrible! what was he thinking??? i would be sooo angry too!! hope you can still enjoy your shower today!!

Future Mrs H Posted:

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Oh Elizabeth!!!
I would be beyond crazy too!
Sometimes I wonder what goes through the mind of a man!

Have fun at you shower today. Dont let this ruin YOUR day!!
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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You poor thing.. My DH would be lucky he still had a set of balls by the time i was done with him after a stunt like that. I'm so sorry you had a rough night...try to relax and enjoy your shower today. This day si about YOU!!!
Malvinka Posted:

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ouch!
cateydee Posted:

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omg elizabeth i am so sorry!!!! holy shi i cant beleive that he acted that way. i dont think he should have a 2nd bach party- he should feel so bad that he wont want to do it. but anyway guys are friggin idiots and that's not the reason why we ar e marrying them.

today is your shower, its time to look cute so that you can open tons of gifts!! dont let this silly event ruin your moment!
DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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1. Have a great time at your shower. Just think of the gifts and 2. FH seems to be on the insensitivity train lately. Is he having wedding freak outs could be he's getting nervous. OR which is the big one the Chantix is F@cking with his moods. My FH is a total psycho on chantix. Moody, gets angry for the stupidist reasons a lot of my friends who are on chantix were also put on zoloft bc it severely messes with your psyche. Look at the side effects and if it sounds like your FH send him back to his dr asap.

Clover23 Posted:

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

1. Have a great time at your shower. Just think of the gifts and 2. FH seems to be on the insensitivity train lately. Is he having wedding freak outs could be he's getting nervous. OR which is the big one the Chantix is F@cking with his moods. My FH is a total psycho on chantix. Moody, gets angry for the stupidist reasons a lot of my friends who are on chantix were also put on zoloft bc it severely messes with your psyche. Look at the side effects and if it sounds like your FH send him back to his dr asap.



I was concerned about the Chantix actually - I'm going to look into that. FH insists he never gets side effects from medication but i really don't know how else to explain his recent behavior. I mean it could be wedding freak outs i guess, but we've been together almost 8 years - we went through that phase before he proposed! or so i think.
Thanks
marinai7 Posted:

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I'm sorry sweetie, that sounds horrible and you have every right to be mad at him. I know it's hard, but just let him sleep it off and try to enjoy your shower (it will only happen once). I'm sure everyone put soooo much effort into your shower and would like for you to enjoy it. Then when you get home, you can have a nice longggggggggggggggg talk with FH. Try to enjoy your shower!!!!
FutureMrsK10110 Posted:

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OMG!!
Don't let this ruin your enjoyment of your shower. Put all that to the side and enjoy your day, and have fun with your friends and family. The day may have started out sh!tty but don't let it end that way. Tomorrows a new one and he should be more clear headed to talk about this.
TheFutureMrsPM Posted:

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o m ggggggg I am so sorry Boys are sooo dumb! ENJOY your show, I know it will be hard b/c of the night you had but try to put it a side you will only have one shower!!!
mariedsgn Posted:

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OMG Elizabeth!!! I would have freaked out!!!!
I hope you can get some rest and try to enjoy your bridal shower, I know that it is going to be really hard but try not to think about what happened last night until after your shower is over - don't let this ruin your day
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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OMG honey!! I am soooo sorry you had to go through this...

I am sooo upset for you....

Just enjoy your bridal shower day as much as you can and don't even think about this whole ordeal.
Clover23 Posted:

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there's no way he's gonna be able to bring me in to the shower... i know people will ask 'where's mike' - what do i say? sick? he's coming at the end? he's a damn fool? I can't believe i'm going to my shower on 2 1/4 hours of sleep... mind you, that was like 8 hours ago too. i need IV caffeine. hopefullyh the adrenaline will kick in.

not to mention the weahter SUCCCKS! lolll
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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wow try not to ruin one of the happiest days our your life!

Soon2bShea Posted:

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holy crap!! wow...thats one crazy story! boys are such fcuking idiots! i dont get it.

i dont know who is futher up sh!ts creek, your fh or bil lol. your bil wasnt responding to texts and lost fh on the train?? i dont even know what to say lol

Marianne13 Posted:

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Aww I'm sorry.. That stuff would annoy me too. Not the going out to a game but drinking til you pass out and can't get home and not answering your texts is ridiculous....especially the day before your shower.

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