jUST WONDERING (nwr)

sami Posted: Sep 30, 2006 01:01 PM

jUST WONDERING (nwr)

Do all you ladies know exactly what you husband /Fiance has in the bank? What he owes in CC? Or what he owns in general??? I hope this is not to personal.

PapayaChic Posted: Sep 30, 2006 01:40 PM

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yup everything i even know his social.
I do his taxes and sometimes pay hiis bils for him when he's out of town.

SweetCin704 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 02:10 PM

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Yes, although not entirely until we were married.

moonlitee Posted: Sep 30, 2006 03:49 PM

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Yep...It's one of the talks we had after he proposed.

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Sep 30, 2006 04:29 PM

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Absolutely. We are very open about those kinds of things (well, everything actually)

Nali Posted: Sep 30, 2006 04:45 PM

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yes....We started talking about how much we each have after he proposed so that we can plan a wedding and buy a house accordingly. Now that we're married we open eachother's mail and
I even know his social by heart

Nikki24591 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 05:23 PM

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I knew everything before we were married because we decided to live together early on. He had no problem sharing everthing with me and I had no problem sharing with him either.

DSNY08 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 05:29 PM

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yep... we know everything about eachother... savings, 401k, CC debt, etc. But we've been living together for over four years. I only recently memoriezed his social though!

ant n tilde Posted: Sep 30, 2006 05:54 PM

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hmm not really. . .i guess i should get on that??? never asked really. . .

AllJoy Posted: Sep 30, 2006 07:27 PM

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Have an idea, but not the exact #'s.

jerrys girl Posted: Sep 30, 2006 07:29 PM

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I have asked and he has told me before and after he proposed. I wanted to be prepared for it when we choose a hall and a home.

libby2595 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 07:40 PM

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i know EVERYTHING.

CaMacho Posted: Sep 30, 2006 08:28 PM

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Yes down to the penny.
We were together since 19 yrs old when we had nothing in the bank!

aliwnec10 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 09:13 PM

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yes i do. I pay all the bills, i look at our accounts online, i'm the one who files his bills away, and i know all of his passwords.

We don't keep any secrets. Neither one of us has anything to hide.

ewickens Posted: Sep 30, 2006 09:16 PM

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Yes - he and I are very open with our finances as soon as we moved in with one another 2 years ago.

citycrab705 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 09:35 PM

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pretty much, i take care of wedding money, and i pay his personal bills for him - through his personal account,
however fh owns his own business so thereare things i don't know, and he has stocks that i don't know how much they are, but i don't really care either, i'm more concerned about debts than extra money he makes,
he doesn't know how much i have in my retirement savings or in my TDA

OctoberPrincess2006 Posted: Sep 30, 2006 09:43 PM

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Posted by libby2595

i know EVERYTHING.

We have known eachother since we were teenagers.

October Bliss Posted: Sep 30, 2006 10:22 PM

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Exactly down to the last penny??? No. Close enough to be completely comfortable and know that there is nothing hiding out there that will jump up and bite him (and vice versa) - yes.