keeping tradition

sami Posted: Jul 09, 2006 11:51 PM

keeping tradition

is anyone not doing the tossing of the bokay .. i don t think that i will be dong that .. is that okay?

BRod-Cheng Posted: Jul 09, 2006 11:55 PM

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I'm skipping both the bouquet and garter toss. The last few weddings I went to the B&G skipped the tosses and I did not even notice until much later.

evnme Posted: Jul 10, 2006 12:12 AM

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we did the bok toss but not the garter.
there are no 'rules' just customs. so u can do it or not do it... it's up to u

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 01:17 AM

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BoK yes...garter NO

chapel06 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 06:47 AM

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We are skipping the bok toss and the garter toss. Last wedding I went to no one participated and I would rather more time for dancing.

Aly0124 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 10:27 AM

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I'm skipping the bouquet toss and garter toss. Both traditions are just not me.

My DOC recommended that we do something because the guests will be expecting it. So we're doing an anniversary dance. All married couples are asked to go to the dance floor. One by one the couples are eliminated based on how long they have been married. When it's over, I give my bouquet to the couple who has been married the longest.