KIDS

SugaBeans Posted: Feb 14, 2007 10:21 PM

KIDS

So I haven't even gotten married yet and so many people are asking me about when we are going to start having kids! GEEEEEZ let me get married first!! haha

what's the time frame most of you are thinking of for having kids?

I was hoping to be married for at least a year or two before having kids or until we are financially secure!

Jasonsgirl Posted: Feb 14, 2007 10:22 PM

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I'm going to wait until im 30 to have a baby. I want to be married a couple of years before we have kids.

branNjay Posted: Feb 14, 2007 10:27 PM

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We want to have kids asap after we get married we have already been together 5 years when we get married so we are ready to start our family as long as we are finacially ready

Hooooooooooooooooooray for babies!!!!!

jgl Posted: Feb 14, 2007 10:30 PM

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prob after i get tenure. so prob yr after we are married... we'll be 29 when we get married. well ill be 2 days after and him 3 days before.. hehe

MikeandJess Posted: Feb 14, 2007 11:31 PM

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I figured I'd wait a year after the wedding, I want to be done having them by the time I'm 30 because everyone in my family seems to have some sort of pregnancy complication. It's a miracle I made it here today.

failurebydsign Posted: Feb 15, 2007 01:01 AM

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weve been together for only 2 years and were ready now..but we dont want to have one before the wedding..at least not a planned one..
but it will be a honeymoon baby for sure

dream426 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 07:11 AM

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I want to be married 3 or 4 years before I have kids so I will be around 28. Both of our parents are just going to have o wait a little longer. I know they want some sooner. And who knows maybe we will change out minds.

jteach711 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:02 AM

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My fh is an old man (35), so we'll probably start trying right after we buy a house, which is happening right after we get married. So w/in a year.

Kimbalina Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:20 AM

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I have never wanted kids. My family knows this and contiues ask, and wants to know if 'i've changed my mind yet', I dont know that I never will anymore, but I want to wait like 5 years. i want to enjoy being married

P.s... i am 26 and my FH is 23 so we will be 31 and 28, when we are planning on having kids

ZKAT22 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:33 AM

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we've been together 6 six..4 of those living together. we're only going to wait a few months before we start popping out babies. my in-laws and my parents are already asking when the baptism will be.

Jesses Girl Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:46 AM

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IF i have kids...it will be when we can afford it. which will probably be like 50 years. haha jk im thinkin like 30-32 yrs old. im going to be 25 soon.

cherish83 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:50 AM

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We want to wait 2-3 years after we are married to have a baby. But once have the first one i want to have the second 1-2 years after.

Autumn08 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:51 AM

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I wouldn't get stressed! Some people are just asking to make conversation not to make you think you better get started!

I think a year after we will start trying. Maybe longer. We definately want to be living in a house first.

People at work are placing bets that I'm going to have a HM baby!

Julybride08 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:56 AM

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I think 1-2 years after. This way we can enjoy married life for awhile.

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 08:56 AM

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God willing we will start trying to have a baby 2 years after we are married..after we buy a house

JM4EVA Posted: Feb 15, 2007 10:37 AM

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We are going to wait about 3 to 4 years after we get married....so we will both be around 30 or 31.....we want to get a house before we have kids. But definately want kids!

irishsweetheart Posted: Feb 15, 2007 10:42 AM

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we are definitely waiting around 2-3 years before we starting attempting the whole kid thing. Need some time to enjoy being married!!!!

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Feb 15, 2007 10:48 AM

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im ready now.. but my wallet isnt.. but by the time the wedding comes we should be ok... so im hoping for a honeymoon baby.. but most likely we'll wait like 6 months to a year so we can adjust to married life!

karen6474 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 10:54 AM

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probably a year or two or whenever we can afford it! ha that will be never!

JeanetteandSteve Posted: Feb 15, 2007 11:02 AM

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we plan on trying after we've been married for 2-3 years. i LOVE kids and will probably really want to start trying right away, but i think it's important to enjoy just being US for a little while first.